Let it go
When somebody told me that he failed his exams, I questioned "Is it a law that you will pass every time?"
When someone told me that his friend broke up with him, I queried, "Is it a rule that you will have successful relationships all the time?"
When somebody else informed me that he was severely depressed, I wondered out aloud, "Is it necessary to be in fine form all the time?"
When another one wept...