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Hormonal Plunge
Hormonal plunge is all about sex and humans.
Everyone claims that when a human hits puberty, he or she can barely control their hormonal urges which to a layman is sex but that is far from the truth.
Majority of people struggles with this urge even when they are in their middle age. It's the core of middle age crisis.
Sexuality is something that we either give a name or we overtly ignore without knowing the real truth behind those words. This shouldn't be but its actually a truth.
I believe that a person's culture, religion and personality can hamper or build the sexual tension over time. Remember when a girl first found blood in between her legs at a tender age of let's say 12, she was either scared, confused or secretive or some may actually feel shame. This emotions are as a result of what has been heard from their tender age up to that moment.
They would have to be forced to come to terms with what they feel. And note how to handle those situations either on their own or with the help of external factors.
Moving forward, when you're a woman and know what all those things signify and you have the tendency to get aroused and all. You may find yourself at a loss on what it all means. Even when married and with a healthy family, you struggle with the sexual part of you.
Do you know why? It's simply because, you've been trying to survive all along but there really haven't been a listening ear on the way out cos no one really wants to talk about their experiences or lead you down the real truth about sex. And well, it's embarrassing to talk about. Everyone shies away from the topic like it's an abomination or an anomaly but it succeeds in getting more confused adults, rather than sure ones.
In so doing, most fall prey for groups and individuals that feed them with unhealthy tales about sex. They grow into it and well, their life suffers. Pretty deep but true. Sex shouldn't be tiptoed around.
Charity begins at home is true. Parents needs the first approach. Or your kids will get it from other sources. Then risk becoming sexually frustrated.
© favody
Everyone claims that when a human hits puberty, he or she can barely control their hormonal urges which to a layman is sex but that is far from the truth.
Majority of people struggles with this urge even when they are in their middle age. It's the core of middle age crisis.
Sexuality is something that we either give a name or we overtly ignore without knowing the real truth behind those words. This shouldn't be but its actually a truth.
I believe that a person's culture, religion and personality can hamper or build the sexual tension over time. Remember when a girl first found blood in between her legs at a tender age of let's say 12, she was either scared, confused or secretive or some may actually feel shame. This emotions are as a result of what has been heard from their tender age up to that moment.
They would have to be forced to come to terms with what they feel. And note how to handle those situations either on their own or with the help of external factors.
Moving forward, when you're a woman and know what all those things signify and you have the tendency to get aroused and all. You may find yourself at a loss on what it all means. Even when married and with a healthy family, you struggle with the sexual part of you.
Do you know why? It's simply because, you've been trying to survive all along but there really haven't been a listening ear on the way out cos no one really wants to talk about their experiences or lead you down the real truth about sex. And well, it's embarrassing to talk about. Everyone shies away from the topic like it's an abomination or an anomaly but it succeeds in getting more confused adults, rather than sure ones.
In so doing, most fall prey for groups and individuals that feed them with unhealthy tales about sex. They grow into it and well, their life suffers. Pretty deep but true. Sex shouldn't be tiptoed around.
Charity begins at home is true. Parents needs the first approach. Or your kids will get it from other sources. Then risk becoming sexually frustrated.
© favody
