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Parenting matters
Tiya was a girl who enjoyed her life by joining with others happiness. So each and every person's success made her happy and she tried her level best to make other's happy. Thus she was so satisfied and happy with her life. Once one of her best friend named Lisa got a smartphone from her father as a surprise on her birthday when her father came to see her from farthest workplace. Thus Lisa shared her extreme happiness for the surprise gift to Tiya. By hearing this extreme happiness from Lisa,Tiya become so happy by seeing her happiness. Lisa is one of her best friend with a strong bond of sharing each and every thing. Tiya lived by enjoying and joining in other's success. Each and every person's success made her happy. Atlast, Tiya's final exam result published and they reach school for getting report card. When Tiya's parents started to leave from school after getting the report card,they met with Lisa's parents and they talk with each other. Finally Tiya's parents get to know that Lisa scored more than their kid Tiya. When Tiya's parents reach home they started blaming Tiya for not scoring that much of Lisa. And they started to compare Tiya to Lisa[their own kid to another kid] and they degrade Tiya at the peak. This made her so desperate and she run to her room and lock the door with extreme sadness. She cried by thinking each and every words that fall from her parents that degrading her own abilities. She has written the exam genuinely by her hardwork without copying or discussing any answers in the exam hall, even some students copied her answers and Tiya helped students by showing the right answers. Now she was thinking all about it with filled tears and broken heart. Tiya,the girl who enjoyed others success slowly started to feel jealousy and ego to her best friend Lisa for getting more grades than hers because of hearing the blaming of her parents. Now she grown up and her personality changed a lot. Now she feels jealous to see other's success and gives more importance to getting grades even copying by using bits rather than getting genuine grades by hardwork.

This is how parenting affects moulding of personality of their kid. This is one of the important thing that each and every parent should know on the growing generations. Never compare own kid to other's kid or degrade own child's ability with another kid's ability.
© Anonymous Soul