it takes a bold step in putting yourself first.
once upon a time there was this friend that needed my help despite the fact ill. I took the courage to help her out, not knowing she won't appreciate it. after everything eran i did for her it was of no avail.
When she arrived we greeted but there was something odd at her that i couldn't place my fingers on. I noticed it then tried observing her to know the problem, so she won't play the victim. But finally she did " saying she doesn't know what she did to me 🤣....
You can imagine human being can't be predicted. after all the strange attitudes...
Then i had to admit to let peace rain ....
she is playing a cheese with me. I let it slide but was very observant about her
One faithful day we were close she acted as if i, was invisible ... kept my calmness she stoodup still not noticing my presence the "victimizer"
next i provoked and ask her am too small for you to see... next i greeted her.
she was speechless didn't know what to say....
2days later she said that, she was offended by my attitude. Telling me she is sorry that her mind wasn't there... I should forgive her. That she felt pained as a kind heart person let it slide.