Millions of young people now have more freedom to explore various aspects to their sexuality that they might never have had the opportunity to explore before.

Regardless of perception or what anyone else will tell you, the notion of “gay, straight or bi” is a man-made construct. We invented these labels to facilitate the categorization of Human sexuality, mainly to enable discussion about it. It’s easy to fall into the trap of using the labels, I do it myself, because to not use the labels makes it so much harder to communicate an idea or continue the discussion.

Human sexuality is far more complex than these labels would have you believe. Just as bisexual people have different relationships with both sexes to differing degrees throughout their life depending on the person, the circumstances, the attraction etc… there is no reason why a person who usually identifies as heterosexual throughout most of their life can’t have experiences with the same gender.

We don’t categorize trees by the colour of their leaves and stick to “light green, mid green and dark green”, so why do we categorize Humans based on one facet of their being, when that facet of their being is so varied and complex? It would be like categorizing all Humans into three groups by the length of their hair, or the clothes they wear, or the colour of their shoes.

If a guy has a fetish for wearing leather, or wearing women’s underwear, or spanking, are they categorized into a sexual path and forced to walk it? No. A guy wearing women’s underwear for a sexual reason could be straight, bisexual, or even gay.
In just the same way, a man could have heterosexual relationships all of his life but still have a fetish for masturbation, or seeing other men climax, or helping another man to bust a nut This one act doesn’t redefine their entire life and sexual orientation
I know others who have a fetish for big tits, or big round butts. Yes, even though this is one of the most common aspects of male sexuality having a preference for big tits is a fetish. People don’t think it is because people have a warped idea of what fetish means. It doesn’t mean something only a smaller group of people are secretly into, it’s an aspect of sexuality maligned by public perception into being something a minority of people are interested in.
As such, I believe many millions of men have a fetish for seeing another man enjoying his own member in the same way. How else are we to explain the fact that just about every adult movie in the world ends with men masturbating and climaxing?
If all of those millions of men were entirely 100% about women and have absolutely no interest in male genitalia at all, why isn’t every porn movie girl-on-girl? The reality is that all those millions of men seem to enjoy seeing very large cocks on their screen, they seem to enjoy seeing those large cocks being wanked at the end of it and shooting off a load. How man men out there DON’T climax seeing another cock cumming in a porn video?
How else do we explain this other than by realizing that these millions of heterosexual men enjoy seeing another man's dick
If we need any evidence of the confusion of male sexuality we only need to look at the porn industry. We have millions of men who claim to be “100% heterosexual” shooting off their loads while watching other men shooting off their loads, and these men never stop to ask themselves why that is.
porn and the observation was made that almost all straight porn involving male performers focuses a lot on cock. It’s absolutely true. In my experience most men, irrespective of their sexuality, seem to enjoy the sight of a hard cock being pleasured and ejaculating, the more cum the better. It’s a fact that no man can ignore, it’s the elephant in the room. When you’re considering that and contemplating the sexual identities of men in general, you have to wonder if there’s something there that’s just being ignored.
Then you have to wonder whether men have been conditioned to ignore it. How could something so obvious, in sight for all to see, just never be discussed or questioned? My personal view of this is that most men are almost programmed to overlook it or create an excuse for it, because simply recognizing any slight little appreciation for the way another cock looks is considered “gay”. I’ve had discussions about this very thing with other very heterosexual friends and they are adamant that it’s about “imagining you’re them”, but I’m not convinced

One act doesn’t change you

Driving a car doesn't make you a race car driver

Using a wrench doesn't make you a mechanic

Using a toaster or boiling water doesn't make you a chief

Wearing a dress on Halloween for party doesn’t make you transgender.

Using another guy for the purpose of getting an orgasm together doesn’t make either of them suddenly shift their entire sexuality, nor does it change their existing appreciation for the fairer sex.
Your not going to cuddle in each other's arms or date and sure as hell not gonna get married your mouth or ass will be used for the sole purpose of the man getting his nut and it will never be discussed or brought up until next time pussy isn't available to him

We’re so blinded by this system of arbitrary categorization that men grow up thinking this is the way you do things, that to be this person you have to conform to a certain set of traits and characteristics, that any deviation from this “norm” moves you out of one category and into another. It’s simply not true.

Your sexuality doesn’t simply change into something else when you add a new experience. If you want to experience something the drive is already there, you already have that part of your sexuality urging you on, actually experiencing it is either going to confirm that it was a good choice, or not. Nothing has changed to make you want to try something, and trying it and enjoying it won’t then make you want to run out and buy Justin Timberlake album to practice some dance routines for Gay Pride.

Who gives a fuck what anyone else thinks?
we are only here for a very limited time. The notion that we should all comply with a random set of commands issued by no one, enforced by no one, is an insanity I find hard to understand.
You are a tiny little blip in space and time, in a vast existence stretching out across trillions of planets we cannot even see. We are all extremely rare, we are all extremely limited in time, our existence is a confusion in itself. We are all remarkable.
So, why do we spend our short remarkable lives on this rock worrying so insanely about what someone we don’t know might think about us, theoretically?
Do you care about what someone you don’t know does in their free time? No. You couldn’t care less if who's his face from down the road loves being spanked at the weekends. Your opinion of that is meaningless and you wouldn’t expect to have any say in what he does. Your perception of him should have absolutely no impact on his life whatsoever.

So, knowing this, why do so many men give so much of a damn about what other people might think about them
Get over it and the labels, they don’t serve us in life. The next generation has worked this out and it seems they’re more clued-up than most of us when it comes to these things. Be yourself, experience the things you want to experience, don’t let some mythical societal imagination dictate what is “okay” and what isn’t, based on a set of arbitrary rules no one ever agreed to. You are here for a very short time and it would be a terrible waste to get to the end of you life wishing you had done so much more but you let imaginary disapproval stop you from experiencing the things you wanted to experience.
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