So, this is from experience.. growing up in developing world, Tanzania to be precise, going through life seems like reading a guidebook to understand how TV works.

Is like our ancestors already wrote the life guide for us to just exist and follow it through without editing it.

Until you get a chance to be bit exposed to the World, that's when you realize this life guidebook is missing some pages and can actually be edited.

However, the editing process also needs another guidebook... (Hahaa I know right..!)

You kinda go through life trying to figure your existence and see if what you are doing is right or wrong and before you figure that out at a certain age or stage in life, you find yourself you have moved stages already or is another birthday and you are actually needed to catch up with what to do in that particular age or stage of your life, can be marriage, pregnancies, new borns, loss in life, education, work promotions or just falling in love.

And all these experiences comes with no notification and no guidebook.

So, what do you do?

Well, connecting one stage to the next stage is always hard to figure that out and most people loose it here, some commit physical or emotional suicide, divorce, drop out, relocate or just act or do something unexpected and we wonder.. Uuugh what really happened!?

But today I want to share with you a secret to connecting this missing dot of life transitions, so that you do not loose yourself in the process.

Tip #1 Be aware before getting there that transitions are normal, I have had to experience them myself divorce, pregnacy, newborn, school, friends, and my favorite, LOVE. So, easy up it's normal.

After all, we're you born like that? How many transitions have you had to go through for you to be the YOU!

Tip #2 Relax.. This is a complete sentence, just do what it says, and thank me later.

Tip #3 Look where your face is... FORWARD! yeah.. Easier said than done but try driving while looking backwards then share what happens.

Be greatful for the last stage you are about to leave and smile about it, then FOCUS on the next stage.

Tip #4 Do not talk too much, you will end up boring the people around you cause that normally turns out to be complains consciously or unconsciously, and believe me, no one needs complaints around them, its just alot to deal with, we also have our shits to fix. So Tip #2 can really help you here.

Tip #5 Live like you did in the last phase, or make it better.. Remember, it is all a journey and no phase is independent, you need this to complete your cycle of the journey, so save your energy and repeat the cycle.. Before you know it, another phase will be here, so don't waste time, get to it..

You have been blessed with so much that what you think you are missing, and believe you me, Universe is in your favor and will never release anything that you are not ready for.

You have people who truly love you, instead of complaining and making it hard for them and you, put your ego down and ask for help.

You are not without help... Never forget that.

Remember, it is a journey, enjoy it in every phase, after all, nothing is permanent, not even the phase you so bad want.

So enjoy the process, grow through the process and remember to take lots of pictures in every phase of your journey, it helps, trust you me. (You can Tag Me)

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