It's been for years that the commitments you have and your decision of being quiet at many instances is regarded to be your weakness by others around you in your family.
It's good that you keep on serving your loved ones, when there is a mutual understanding among you and your family. But the resentment germinates in you when you realize that you are being taken for granted. Your family members become demanding and always expect from you, that you are not supposed to say ' no' to the things even when you don't want to do. Your family members have the same human capacity , still have the odacity to say that it is you who needs to take care of your loved ones as we can't handle them better. Actually, the other way of saying no to the things, they are equally responsible for.
On humanitarian grounds or because of social norms you decide to serve the person easily, especially for the one who is receptive and understanding enough and ready to compromise in certain situations. But how to serve those who are selfcentric and exploitive in their nature and behaviour . Those who have no love and compassion for you and...