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well, i think you do, i think you are very effected by others, because they make you said that, you don't love your self, you just love what may the others hate about you, in the other hand those who look for shortcomes in others and hate others, in fact they hate themselves and they just look for shortcome in other peoples just to feel some satisfaction that they are not alone with shortcomes.
so we are effected by others in every step, don't try to convaince your self the opposite.