Woman's body is very sacred to her.
She can't share it with anyone or every one,
just for the sake of fun or having sex.
Yes she devote herself to the one she Loves ..
or the one commits her with integrity,
to be with her for the lifetime throughout all the ups and downs of life.
Or someone whom she sees as a father of her children she wishes for.

For a woman surrendering her body to a man is a very divine process!
For her..
it's
like dying beautifully into something unknown,
for the new birth of her own being.

What my understanding is...

A girl blooms into a woman
for the first time with the touch of her man...
and the day that bloom turns into a fruit,
that woman magically turns into a mother.
magic of his man's touch...!
it's not sex for her,
for her..
'union of two souls' in the physical realm,
'who are already one' in the mental and all other nonphysical realms.
So she waits all her life for that one man.

It is that divine to her!
If sex and having fun were so important to her, she couldn't have waited for so long.
And Even that's why after becoming a mother,
a woman is not that interested in getting physically involved... because now her priority is her kids.
but she still does that for her man,
in service to her man.
As her duty towards her man.
Taking away all his stress...
may be due to hormonal activities inside the body, or may be it's life Playing the game.
She tries her best to...make him feel good.
Give him a moment of divine bliss,
fulfilling his biological need,
through the medium of her Love,
as she knows man are mentally and emotionally weak,
she gives him her strength
and
all her love.
she does it out of her duty and responsibility towards her man.
and out of her Love for her man.
She makes his desires her own,
to see him happy and blessed all the time.
ofcourse being in her man's arms
is Godly to her as well.
But it has nothing to do with sex.
Indulging physically with any man,
is not like a sipping a tea.
No.
Not only physically,
but even if mentaly she has given herself to someone,
it's hard for her to disconnect the cords that easily.
No it's really tough...particularly when there is a fog in the relationship. All unclear.

Being physical with whom your cords are so deeply rooted, is just like bringing it to the surface what she already holds within,
the surrender!
The devotion!
The Love... she feels for him inside.
because breaking the mental grid is more complex,
even more complex then physical.
but because her energy doesn't centralize in her body...
she is physically weak and don't know how to handle if has even physically entangled... with someone,
because definitely there is an exchange of energy...
her highs are gone
his lows remained with her,
that's why she feels so empty inside,
so drained outside,
though she can handle things very well with her mental strength when she fall sick.
102° fever and she cooks for her kids and the family,
does well all her duties...
no body even able to know what she has been through all day, they come to know,
only when they find her sleeping untime... after all her work done.
She handles all kind of physical pain,
even ably handle herself well in all harsh and toughest situations of life.
But when a man breaks her heart and particularly after getting involved physically emotionally in every way... is...