Having to deal with a challenge within, something that is hard to address, and you are not sure where to begin.
You don't know how to avoid it
You are not sure if it is really a challenge to you
You try to forget about it but it keeps popping up in your brain
Firstly, ask yourself self if it helps you in a good way and if no, it's a challenge that you must overcome no matter what, because if you don't overcome it,it will affect you so much.
Look for your happiness in the right way, your happiness is your priority, do not ignore your happiness because of anyone, don't lay down your joy for someone else, though, they can be good to you or ready to make you happy always, but an inner peace...