One thing I wanted women to know is that it is not our fault. We should not blame ourselves for what men put us through. Society often places the burden of responsibility on women for the actions of men, but it is important to remember that we are not to blame for the mistreatment we may face.

Women are often judged and criticized for the way they dress, speak, or behave. We are told that we should have known better, that we should have been more careful, that we should have done something differently to avoid the harm that was done to us. This victim-blaming mentality is harmful and unjust. It is not our fault that some men choose to act in harmful and abusive ways towards women.

It is important for women to remember that they are not alone in facing...