bad behaviour
Not only is it a very cold world but also an inexplicably sad world we live in, when an adult can justify projecting their own opinions, issues, judgement, animosity and pain, into the mind of a child so strongly that without proof or understanding, they start to believe it as their own. Not only does this thoughtless behaviour hurt the recipient of their focus but also the child to which they are projecting their criticism, judgement or opinion onto. This is so damaging for the child as they become conflicted by what they're now thinking or believing and what they are personally experiencing or feeling. It fractures the child's innocence and lack of need for logic or reason. Wounding their self esteem and robs the child of their right to learn, experience and form their own opinions of the world, their situations and others. To all of you who think and believe that I am disillusioned or unaware of the catastrophic mess I have made my life, and unintentionally made the lives of my babies and others closest to me, you are so very wrong. I understand what it is I have done, and I am trying to repair the damage I have caused, though this may take many of years to do so, as the journey of healing can be extremely hard and...