this is exactly what it is when its brokepqà,down. just follow me here, or at least try to, and even if you get lost just keep going bc eventually it'll all make sense ....
people say marriage ruins marriages, the titles, the officiality of it.... but I say its all wrong.
people ruin marriages not the marriage.
people forget what and why they married that individual in the first place. happiness, love, attraction, intimacy, commitment, dedication, faithfulness, its all a choice... you chose what you see in your partner.
remember when you first started seeing them and they did nothing wrong?? like there is not one thing in this world they could do that would irritate you and even if it did you loved it bc you loved them. hello. you chose to see the highlights of them and accept the baggag.
now, just them being in the same room wit you causes your blood pressure too go sky high, speaking of which its time to take your daily medication all bc you...