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Toxic parents (second chance)
Let's not lie here toxic parents are the real reason why this generation has to see therapists, counselors and psychiatrists. I may sound rude but believe me if you don't experience how toxic parents are let me give you some of the worst experiences every child with toxic parents has
1. Comparing their child to other children
Well it doesn't matter what's your age and how you always try to improve yourself a toxic parent will always compare you to the other kids well sometime they really go overboard with it they literally compare you to a successful person who is almost 24 when you are just like 15 or 18 the age doesn't matter here as per my experience parents don't really care how bad it affects their child's health. Imagine getting told that you aren't good enough with every little step you take , it's awful. The real bad thing is they think it's important for them to keep doing this so their child is in ' Control ' it's bullshit to be honest thinking they are doing something great when all they are doing is ruin their child's minds give them 'Anxiety' problems regarding being around people thinking they are not worthy to live cause they aren't satisfying them ( parents) and after all this things they still has the nerves to say " it's for your own good what am I gonna get " well yea so good that I have 'Suicide thoughts'
2. Grades
Why do you always expect every subject sport and extra curricular activities to be Easy and not hard to do and consider it just sitting and not actually working and want their child to be first in every thing it's not the child's fault if the brain is doing the thing cant you just let it go and not drag it because believe me I don't want to definitely no child wants their parents to say something about their grades
3. Can't keep it a secret ( no privacy)
Parents can't keep a secrets you can never tell them anything and expect them to be calm about it mostly when their child tells them something very embarrassing and awful it means the child trusts them to keep it a secret but when a relative comes over you know what they are going to do
If your parents are like this and you want to talk about it feel free to dm me on Instagram 😊 or even having any other difficulties you can rant about it at last we all need someone to share hard things to when we feel like keep it to ourselves and dw no one will know what you said and yes if you still don't feel that safe you can just not tell me your name just tell me your write-co ID
Every one is experiencing something awful and we should be able to understand it . It's okay if we don't understand it but at least we tried to ..........
Parents should know that their child is suffering from what they are doing cause it was never their choice to be born it's you remember if you want to talk about how you took care of them ever since they were born instead try asking them how was their day today as much as it sounds simple it's at least better than being strict towards them................
(sorry for any grammatical mistakes, spelling errors )
© Nirjala lobhi
1. Comparing their child to other children
Well it doesn't matter what's your age and how you always try to improve yourself a toxic parent will always compare you to the other kids well sometime they really go overboard with it they literally compare you to a successful person who is almost 24 when you are just like 15 or 18 the age doesn't matter here as per my experience parents don't really care how bad it affects their child's health. Imagine getting told that you aren't good enough with every little step you take , it's awful. The real bad thing is they think it's important for them to keep doing this so their child is in ' Control ' it's bullshit to be honest thinking they are doing something great when all they are doing is ruin their child's minds give them 'Anxiety' problems regarding being around people thinking they are not worthy to live cause they aren't satisfying them ( parents) and after all this things they still has the nerves to say " it's for your own good what am I gonna get " well yea so good that I have 'Suicide thoughts'
2. Grades
Why do you always expect every subject sport and extra curricular activities to be Easy and not hard to do and consider it just sitting and not actually working and want their child to be first in every thing it's not the child's fault if the brain is doing the thing cant you just let it go and not drag it because believe me I don't want to definitely no child wants their parents to say something about their grades
3. Can't keep it a secret ( no privacy)
Parents can't keep a secrets you can never tell them anything and expect them to be calm about it mostly when their child tells them something very embarrassing and awful it means the child trusts them to keep it a secret but when a relative comes over you know what they are going to do
If your parents are like this and you want to talk about it feel free to dm me on Instagram 😊 or even having any other difficulties you can rant about it at last we all need someone to share hard things to when we feel like keep it to ourselves and dw no one will know what you said and yes if you still don't feel that safe you can just not tell me your name just tell me your write-co ID
Every one is experiencing something awful and we should be able to understand it . It's okay if we don't understand it but at least we tried to ..........
Parents should know that their child is suffering from what they are doing cause it was never their choice to be born it's you remember if you want to talk about how you took care of them ever since they were born instead try asking them how was their day today as much as it sounds simple it's at least better than being strict towards them................
(sorry for any grammatical mistakes, spelling errors )
© Nirjala lobhi
