WHO IS A REAL MAN?
Most of the relationship problem we have nowadays resulted from some men losing their honour over their woman. If you as a man could score upto 70% of the below mentioned points, then you have nothing to be afraid of. Remember nobody is perfect but While being a man, try and be a REALLLLLLLL MAN.
1. A real man for me is any man who strive to keep his honour.
2. He treats women with respect. If you don’t respect women, you’re not a man.
3. A man tthat understands that greater happiness lies in helping others, not helping himself.
4. He doesn’t stand still while the world passes him by, he continually pushes himself.
5. A real man is a leader in at least one aspect of his life, whether this means his family, with his friends or just in general. But he can also follow. The world wouldn’t work if everyone was trying to lead in every aspect of life.
6. A real man doesn’t need to be able to fight or to protect himself and his family physically. But it helps. He does however need to be willing to do whatever it takes to keep his family safe and happy
7. A real man gets depressed, he gets sad, he thinks about quitting and folding, but he never does. He pushes through adversity.
8. He has fears, but he isn’t ruled by them.
9. He does not depend on a woman to provide for him
10. A real man has a true purpose - one that hopefully contributes to the wellbeing of others.
11. A real man thrives not in competition, but in cooperation
12. A real man speaks up - even if it is to say things others dont want to hear
13. A Real Man holds high ethical ideals without compromise.
14. A Real Man is emotionally balanced. He should be able to laugh
and cry as he damn well please, and not give a damm what other
people think of him.
15. A Real Man can be laughed -AT- as well as laughed -WITH- and not feel insulted, demeaned, or belittled. Words don't breat bones!
16. A Real Man shares his feelings with those he cares for.
17. A Real Man has grace under pressure and does not panic in a crisis.
18. A Real Man is responsible for his actions and inactions.
19. A Real Man takes on the burden of responsibility for those who
-cannot- shoulder a responsibility themselves *providing* he is
asked to and agrees.
20.A Real Man marries for life.
21. A Real Man loves and honors his spouse above all else.
22. A Real Man honors and respects *ALL* women, be she Queen or harlot.
23. A Real Man is sexually and emotionally responsive to his spouse or girlfriend.
24. A Real Man is attentive to his spouse sexually, paying attention to what pleases her and what does not.
25. A Real Man is one who respects his spouse's wishes when she says "Not tonight, dear." He does not whine, plead, or beg.
26. A Real Man understands that it is not his job or duty to please
anyone other than himself, which includes his spouse, and which
also includes his spouse sexually.
27. A Real Man desires to please his spouse and children before himself out of love and not guilt or a "sense of power."
28. A Real Man supports his spouse in her successes as well as failures.
29. A Real Man is kind to himself.
30. A Real Man does not lie.
31. A Real Man does not steal.
33. A Real Man does not cheat.
34. A Real Man is tolerant of dissenting opinion.
35. A Real Man is NOT tolerant of hate, bigotry, ignorance.
36. A Real Man never strikes child, woman, or man, for ANY reason, unless in self-defense.
37. A Real Man is well-educated.
38. A Real Man is well-read.
39. A Real Man is clean and well-groomed.
40. A Real Man can cook, clean, iron, wash dishes, change a diaper, and stay home while his spouse works for a living.
41. A Real Man knows when to help someone who needs help but doesn't ask for it.