Whenever we fight it's a revelation process, things you once took for granted; the fact that he never got you roses. You think back on all the things you have done to show him he's important; changing him to babe in your phone book and customizing his ringtone to an incredible love song. Yes he was the one who sent it, but like him your face has never graced his status so that the world could see it. Your anniversaries only scream "excited!!" from you but even wishing you is the last thing he will do.
Then he hits you with "I've got obligations" and you now see you're on the back burner, everything else in his life is of far more importance.
The emptiness settles in, starting just below your chest and a hollow core, meets the bottled tears in your soul, your heart mournfully burns, and you know it's crying , should you fight for something or let go of everything.