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Anger is a chosen feeling.
It is a choice.
in anger we lose control,
we relish in this detangled freedom

The state of anger is a choice
though, the idea of it being a choice is hard to accept.

anger, is a choice
and we cannot accept it as it is because in doing that
we acknowledge that in this state of aggression we are still
in control.
and we dont want to be
anger gives us the chance,
to lose our selves
for just a moment
be bad
and free.

Allowing the excuse to lose control.
We cannot accept it because giving control back through realization
defeats the purpose
of being free at all
free to make the choice of anger.

Jealousy works in much the same way.
Jealousy and the state of being is a choice.
We don't like jealously,
it labels us and makes us uncomfortable.
jealousy implies the lack of control;
the loss of a once stable control pattern.
jealously is the state of what happens when things begin to fall apart.
like a newly bought sweater from your favorite store only to find the yarn starting to come undone.


**When someone or something makes you anger you are in control. You cannot allow yourself to feel anger or jealousy for anything or anyone on this Earth when you are in control of yourself. When they ask if they made you made, jealous, or have offended thee, tell them you are not angry..you couldnt be mad. They don't have the power to shape your emotions and you should never give it to them. Take control and remind your mind that your emotions are not in control. Once you can control these two emotions I promise you will feel that weight lift off your shoulder
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