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Night of the Aurora(facts not poetry?)
Why do we hurt what we love,is a common question that torment many.Why did he or she broke me emotionally or kill the other person because they loved each other?
No doubt the love is deep but.....

Here is my idea on that.
When we love a person deeply it's because we see abit of ourselves in that person.A character similarity or a moral equivalency,identical to us.Yes in a way we love them deeply because we loving what we both represent that is mutually inborn in us out of past circumstances that were created subconsciously to identity us.Pain is the main reason why people relate to each other or hate at first sight.For example we fall in love with a song because we relate to it's meaning like it was sang for u.....and we listen to it repeatedly but no matter how much the song talks about your feelings,the words will never be yours and you will eventually hate it because you got your own words to sing.
And you eventually hate it and search for similar and more identical genre.But the cycle will end the same.(you became labeled a womanizer)

We fall in love because of a similar characteristic attraction,in other words we love the US we see in the other person.The disappointed comes when no matter how similar u are,you are not the same.You have different ways of dealing with common factors that unified you in life(love for a song you relate to like l said earlier but the words are not yours)We try to change wat we love to suit us because we are clouded by the idea that we are the same....but people deal differently with their feelings because no matter how similar the pain that bind 2 people and create a relationship;
"Alas, its a preconceived notion that experience shared is results manufactured."
That alas is the beginning of a more nightmarish relationship.(same hell different devils does not make the punishment the same or how we receive it similar.

We have different instinctive sensors providing sanctuary to a mind because of a subconscious storage that reminds us of the unforgettable experiences and has a way of dealing with it that many people might find disappointing and judge or might find impressive and idolize.(for a example a drunkard wasting away,or a broken girl turned prostitute to feel needed.But society looks at them in shame.
But you look at a singer with big hits crying his pain in a lyrical mellifluous voice.....same pain but different...