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Part 2: Why so serious when you are in relationship?
Part 2: My last article was all about vibes and how vibes of individual attractes world you live in.
Aren't we influenced by social media for physical love then actual love ...?
I say this to say this "Let's stop all nonsense around relationship we see now a days and start with simple basic need of any relationship which is peace ☮️".
From ancient ages till the time social media was not in our blood, relationship was stable and inaccessible. But I want you to think relationship as business. I am enterpreneur and I relate relationship with business.
If business is all about "Give and Take", don't you think relationship is also about the "What you give and what you get in return".
Point 1: After alot of market research I found best business opportunity for me. I was super excited but my excitement was calculated one. I knew how difficult it will be initially and how much I will be investing my time to fix loops holes.
Likewise before you enter into relationship won't you research and analyse person. You should know how much similarity you have and what are those areas which you personally have to imrpove when you are into relationship.
MAKE SURE THE PARTNER YOU CHOOSE SHOULD BE IRREPLACEABLE. IF YOU DONT KNOW THEN MAKE UR PARTNER IRREPLACEABLE.
Conclusion:::::
I am businessman and I have simple rule "Business of 1000 days".
Similarly, I feel everyone should have timeframe of 1000days in relationships.
Point 2: I started my business now almost after 5 months I was making money but I use to tackle new peoblems everyday which I was unaware about. The only way to find solution was keep experimenting till you find right solution.
Similarly, relationship comes with small problems which you neglect because concept of relationship you know is social media influenced.
Major issues in relationship I feel are,
*Past relationship :: If your past relationship is worst you carry forward that experience in new one. I feel this extremely wrong.
If you are new in relationship then you have pre assumption which you have gained through social media and you want your relationship same.
Every person has different vibes. Trust the process. Fight with all odds and talk to your partner know what issues your partner is facing.
Ask them every week that do you want me to change ? It's okay if you ask. It's fine if you change.
Go on Experimental phase to change for your partner.
*Don't compare:
We compare our relationship with others and comparisons makes simple relationship complex. Find your requirements and get comfortable.
For example - If you are having 100 friends and everyone are in relationship. So you will listen stories of 100 relationships and everyone will talk about demerits of being in relationship. What is final impact on you?
And if those 100 friends are talking about merits about relationship no doubt you will have incredible time with your relationship too.
I feel discussing your relationship with others make your relationship complex. Discuss but with your friend whose vibes are stable and who keeps motivating you.
Conclusion:::::
Trsut the process and slove each an every problem with long term gain.
Today it's been 18 months of my business and I can say I have more 18 months to make sure I complete 1000 days.
Look for stable partner and walk for 1000 days.
To be continued...
Aren't we influenced by social media for physical love then actual love ...?
I say this to say this "Let's stop all nonsense around relationship we see now a days and start with simple basic need of any relationship which is peace ☮️".
From ancient ages till the time social media was not in our blood, relationship was stable and inaccessible. But I want you to think relationship as business. I am enterpreneur and I relate relationship with business.
If business is all about "Give and Take", don't you think relationship is also about the "What you give and what you get in return".
Point 1: After alot of market research I found best business opportunity for me. I was super excited but my excitement was calculated one. I knew how difficult it will be initially and how much I will be investing my time to fix loops holes.
Likewise before you enter into relationship won't you research and analyse person. You should know how much similarity you have and what are those areas which you personally have to imrpove when you are into relationship.
MAKE SURE THE PARTNER YOU CHOOSE SHOULD BE IRREPLACEABLE. IF YOU DONT KNOW THEN MAKE UR PARTNER IRREPLACEABLE.
Conclusion:::::
I am businessman and I have simple rule "Business of 1000 days".
Similarly, I feel everyone should have timeframe of 1000days in relationships.
Point 2: I started my business now almost after 5 months I was making money but I use to tackle new peoblems everyday which I was unaware about. The only way to find solution was keep experimenting till you find right solution.
Similarly, relationship comes with small problems which you neglect because concept of relationship you know is social media influenced.
Major issues in relationship I feel are,
*Past relationship :: If your past relationship is worst you carry forward that experience in new one. I feel this extremely wrong.
If you are new in relationship then you have pre assumption which you have gained through social media and you want your relationship same.
Every person has different vibes. Trust the process. Fight with all odds and talk to your partner know what issues your partner is facing.
Ask them every week that do you want me to change ? It's okay if you ask. It's fine if you change.
Go on Experimental phase to change for your partner.
*Don't compare:
We compare our relationship with others and comparisons makes simple relationship complex. Find your requirements and get comfortable.
For example - If you are having 100 friends and everyone are in relationship. So you will listen stories of 100 relationships and everyone will talk about demerits of being in relationship. What is final impact on you?
And if those 100 friends are talking about merits about relationship no doubt you will have incredible time with your relationship too.
I feel discussing your relationship with others make your relationship complex. Discuss but with your friend whose vibes are stable and who keeps motivating you.
Conclusion:::::
Trsut the process and slove each an every problem with long term gain.
Today it's been 18 months of my business and I can say I have more 18 months to make sure I complete 1000 days.
Look for stable partner and walk for 1000 days.
To be continued...
