The Key To Forgiveness

Yesterday I wrote that you can't hold a grudge because it worked out for your good.

This was about forgiveness, and yet so many people can't or won't get this message. They are so angry, they want revenge, and all that hatred is eating them up inside. I saw this first hand with my grandmother and then with my ex-mother-in-law. The hatred they carried with them lasted for years. My grandmother carried it with her to her grave.

I know this feeling, as I carried this hatred with me for years as well. This hatred was for my rapist, I hated him so much and I thought about how to get revenge every day. I wanted revenge so bad, I wanted him to hurt like I...