The word we speak is a powerful and invaluable assest deposited into each and everyone of us, because it's connected with the mind and the mind is connected to the divine Lord. Therefore, parents should always stay positive, utter positive words upon and towards thier children, because their positivity will influence their children in one way or the other and vice versa

According to maitabi banarjee " The power of a positive mom( and father) can do miracles for a child. Although it may sound odd, but before you denounce the claim , Let me state this , to buttress my point .

On the 10th of July 1856 , A child was reportedly born in the midst of a lighting storm in smiljan ,Croatia. The midwife who was present claimed the childbirth amidst lightning storm is a bad omen, which destined him to be the child of the dark, to which the child's mother rebuked and rebuffed immediately saying and I quote " No, He will be a child of light"

She was neither deaconess nor an Evangelist not an alhaja ,but out of love and passion she possess for her child,she declared and her prophetic declaration came to reality, because that child happens to be the renowed inventor ,scientist and hyperpolygot -Nikolas Tesla( The man Elon musk named is electric car ' tesla' after). The first man to invent the first hydroelectric power plant.

Dear parents, always encourage your children with your soothing positive words of encouragement, make your own declaration upon them too,don't ever lay curse on them meaningly or jokingly, ensure you rebuke negative words uttered towards them , believe in them- that they can do it, that they can succeed, that they can surpass all life challenges. Most of them only needs that positivity and love of Tesla's mother from you, which will enhance their strong will and determination to success .

Dear parents,most especially in time of anger and fury, rather stay mute than rain curse on your children. According to prophet Muhammad ( May the peace of Allah be upon him), Three supplications are accepted , there is no doubt in them (about them being accepted): The supplication of the oppressed, the supplication of the traveler, and the supplication of his father( or mother) against his son."
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