There are some stereotypes that gave me stomach aches while growing up, maybe till now too though. One of it the importance of virginity for female children which is trivialised in their male counterparts. So because the boys have no evidence to show for it makes them live carelessly while the girls will still explain tire with their evidence, why!

Another like it is the making of house chores, cooking especially, a gender based skill or duty. Well, as insignificant as my impact might be, I decided to make a change by taking it upon myself to prove these stereotypes wrong.

Those that have tasted my meal can testify I'm the 'baddest', Hilda Baci is flying beside me, no exaggeration. This morning, I prepared the sweetest rice I ever tasted in my life. I...