We often consider winning over society is also winning over our family , but what about the emotions which surround the ethos, Is it really necessary to win over it ???
lets take an example, If Amiya ,a girl, having disputes regarding how she is treated over her brother ,..given less appreciation, given less credit , restricted by ..patriarchial norms just because she born in opposite gender to her brother., Does this make her to fight with her family or the society setup is to be blame ...how ..can she fight it ???


So here are some ways ...i feel she can do that
1. speak up , but in certain pitch ,speak up for her rights.
2. disclose her inner emotions, how she feel when she is treated like..that ...
3.put up questions that ..why she is being treated like that ...rather then remaining silent

Silence ...cannot over turn societal norms , people have to express themselves.
Remain frightened with the feeling that what people would judge her or think ..she has a ill mouth ... can help her .
Its high time ...that people should speak up for themselves ..and stand strict with what they want in life ...
Pressure of society can then only be overridden .
One tough step ..in a family ..and a good discussion can lead to development of better minds , and like the how.. air keeps flowing in direction of wind ....
Positive thoughts will slowly but certaily flow from a particular family and then nearby and spread ..over society, just taking your actions like a wind

Answer to the first question is ..Yes its important to win over society so that ..your individaul personality dosn't fade away ..in the dull norms of society..Although its not always required ..till the time a person in happy and contented.

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