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why, when and who do we marry?
Marriage is an institution that has only one lecturer God, he's the instructors, the helper,the deal keeper, the consultant, the gist keeper, the link between the vows and glue on the bound, he's the friend, the partner to the couple, the communication,the regulator, and more most of all he is the foundation.
Why do we marry?
Marriage is not by force, it is not a qualification, or title, it is not for people who aren't ready, who are not sure, there are not carry overs and no promotion, no partner is superior or inferior but equal to the other.
First the divine concept for marriage is companionship and help. ....therefore man shall 'leave' his father and his mother and "cling" to his wife and the two shall become one.... the ideology is visible when he that finds a wife as according to proverbs 31:10-31 finds a good thing and obtain favor from the Lord. When there is a *seeking and a finding* the *leaving* come into play then the *clinging*, however these steps are in *stereoscopic progress*, meaning that there's is not jumping a step, it is in the order of times from the creation... The concept of companionship and help is the original reason for marriage, pro-creation is mandate "increase,multiple and subdue the earth"
While children are gifts from God "...lo children are heritage of the lord the fruit of the womb is their reward like arrows in the hands of the might so are children of your youth, blessed is the man who have them full of his quiver for he will not be put to shame when he speaks with his enemy at the gates"
I took my time to explain this revelation so as to open our minds to the fact that the number of children you have doesn't determine or change the original concept of marriage.Children as precious as they are, do not determine the success of any marriage.
Why Do We Marry?
We marry because God is particular about that institution,it is in his peculiar will that a man and woman be joined together in his ordinance,to function as one.
Why?
Because God wants a man to have a helpmate, a go to person,a counsel, someone who not only looks like him but shares his flesh and his bones, someone who understands him and acknowledges him,a peace bringer,a solution seeker to stand for and with him when it is needed,the care giver to his winded mind, heart and body,his intimate and soul...
Why do we marry?
Marriage is not by force, it is not a qualification, or title, it is not for people who aren't ready, who are not sure, there are not carry overs and no promotion, no partner is superior or inferior but equal to the other.
First the divine concept for marriage is companionship and help. ....therefore man shall 'leave' his father and his mother and "cling" to his wife and the two shall become one.... the ideology is visible when he that finds a wife as according to proverbs 31:10-31 finds a good thing and obtain favor from the Lord. When there is a *seeking and a finding* the *leaving* come into play then the *clinging*, however these steps are in *stereoscopic progress*, meaning that there's is not jumping a step, it is in the order of times from the creation... The concept of companionship and help is the original reason for marriage, pro-creation is mandate "increase,multiple and subdue the earth"
While children are gifts from God "...lo children are heritage of the lord the fruit of the womb is their reward like arrows in the hands of the might so are children of your youth, blessed is the man who have them full of his quiver for he will not be put to shame when he speaks with his enemy at the gates"
I took my time to explain this revelation so as to open our minds to the fact that the number of children you have doesn't determine or change the original concept of marriage.Children as precious as they are, do not determine the success of any marriage.
Why Do We Marry?
We marry because God is particular about that institution,it is in his peculiar will that a man and woman be joined together in his ordinance,to function as one.
Why?
Because God wants a man to have a helpmate, a go to person,a counsel, someone who not only looks like him but shares his flesh and his bones, someone who understands him and acknowledges him,a peace bringer,a solution seeker to stand for and with him when it is needed,the care giver to his winded mind, heart and body,his intimate and soul...
