He knows who is on the right side he knows what you had suffered, he knows the one who is behaving like a victim is actually been an oppressor and wants to continue the same, still he is asking YOU to UNDERSTAND and accept the oppression like you had been doing till now.
He understands that you are tired and can't take it anymore still he is trying to convince you that if you could take it earlier why can't you take it anymore? there is guilt in his tone and eyes still he is asking you to take it as there is no other way because he can't tell the oppressor the truth that he/she is an oppressor because that can bring a havoc and like anyone else he is choosing easy
The one who always understood his situation is made to understand once again for completely unreasonable unjustified and invalid reasons otherwise she would be responsible for hurting an opressors's narcissistic ego which eventually would make that person claim himself/herself a victim so she is made to give up on her basic human rights because there is someone entitled to dictate his/her terms and no one is bothered to do what is right because everyone chooses easy over right
At the end of the day everything should fall into the right place even if it costs someone's falling apart in pieces .
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