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Free Will of Life
One important factor of life is our "free will".
We all are allowed to make our own decisions whether right or wrong - we each have the right to freedom of choice.
Blaming others for the choices we made or you feel others made against you simply because your child dies due to drug use or other form of related death.
Don't get me wrong. I stand with those who have lost a loved one due to drug abuse.
It's time to face the facts that most drug treatment doesn't work.
However, we do have those committed users to change their lives by recognizing that they had a problem and sought for help and were real and determined to remain this way.
But, these are the lowest of numbers on the chart while the revolving doors continue to swing in circles with the larger numbers.
First, they need to reclassify certain types of drugs they know are safe and reclassify those that are not. This will be a small fix but it matters.
Secondly, no one can stop another person from using drugs especially when they have been longtime users - no matter how much we love them.
Thirdly, it's not the responsibility of others to continue in their aid of our child and our child is refusing to change willfully on their own.
Fourth, it's a free will made choice - no one can make that choice for them.
The decision to never do drugs is a free will choice and there are tons of people who succeeded at staying away from drugs.
So can the battle of drug abuse be won?
Yes, but it's an individual battle not everyone is willing to choose the right one.
Although your pain of loss is real - to say everyone failed your child is not true and since your child failed to listen to his parents means that you failed them too.
If we can't get our children to talk openly to us, how will we ever get them to talk openly to someone else.
Catch 22 is real - (the choice) no matter what we do or try to do to aid a drug addict it's on them to want to get clean as well as stay clean.
A drug user must seek help on their own. No one can do it for them. Bottom line.
© V's Says
We all are allowed to make our own decisions whether right or wrong - we each have the right to freedom of choice.
Blaming others for the choices we made or you feel others made against you simply because your child dies due to drug use or other form of related death.
Don't get me wrong. I stand with those who have lost a loved one due to drug abuse.
It's time to face the facts that most drug treatment doesn't work.
However, we do have those committed users to change their lives by recognizing that they had a problem and sought for help and were real and determined to remain this way.
But, these are the lowest of numbers on the chart while the revolving doors continue to swing in circles with the larger numbers.
First, they need to reclassify certain types of drugs they know are safe and reclassify those that are not. This will be a small fix but it matters.
Secondly, no one can stop another person from using drugs especially when they have been longtime users - no matter how much we love them.
Thirdly, it's not the responsibility of others to continue in their aid of our child and our child is refusing to change willfully on their own.
Fourth, it's a free will made choice - no one can make that choice for them.
The decision to never do drugs is a free will choice and there are tons of people who succeeded at staying away from drugs.
So can the battle of drug abuse be won?
Yes, but it's an individual battle not everyone is willing to choose the right one.
Although your pain of loss is real - to say everyone failed your child is not true and since your child failed to listen to his parents means that you failed them too.
If we can't get our children to talk openly to us, how will we ever get them to talk openly to someone else.
Catch 22 is real - (the choice) no matter what we do or try to do to aid a drug addict it's on them to want to get clean as well as stay clean.
A drug user must seek help on their own. No one can do it for them. Bottom line.
© V's Says
