An action, that others having a hardtime to do,
Rather to say it to a person directly they always choose to say it to others so that others will say it to that person.

Buy doing it.
You do 2 things to that person.
One is hurting them by backstabbing
Two humiliating them to other people.

Was it right?
Its always better to be frankful or truthful for that person to know right away what they need to do or change.

But why is it hard for others to do it?
I'd it they are afraid, that they might hurt that person.
That they might misinterpret what they say to them.
That they might think be scold by them.

Hurting a person by frankfulness is better than hurting them through humiliation or backstabbing them.

Being true to someone is being able to less the hurt that they may feel and will help them to think and resolved what you have been criticised them.

Its better than saying what you observed, smell or see to them without knowing the situation and telling to other people so that other people will also critisized that person that can humiliate them from others.

We don't know what's the situation, feelings, emotions, of others so we don't have right to humiliate them. We also don't want to be humiliated aren't we? But why others are doing it to other people.

We do have different perspective, different kinds of life, problems, health issues, and personal lives.

We should do to others what we want the other people to do to us,

its not weakness to respect one perspective,
Its not weakness or bad to be frankful towards other if it will resolve the problem peacefully.
We must always choose peace than hatred or humiliation.
We must always choose to be true not only to ourselves but to others for we all deserve to know the truth either its a positive criticism or negative one.
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