Love should be giving and not needing. If love is needed, it is doomed. So you have to make it out of need. For love to return to eternal, it should not be needed. A sharing of love must become a transference. Love should cease to be something in need. When you say "I need you", you are talking within selfishness. Saying "I need you", "What am I going to get?" and this is the selfish framework. Hundreds of people ask every day; "I'm alone, how can I resolve this loneliness?" Answer: "Love yourself." You don't love yourself, so you're alone. You need someone to love you for not loving yourself, and you are lonely because there is no one who really loves you unconditionally. Love yourself and learn to love. Loneliness will disappear. Thousands of people will run to you. You will look for a place to escape. You will not escape. You won't be alone. Neither external nor internal. Because when you love yourself, you will reach that Absolute Love closely. Absolute Love means to be in integrity.-Absolute Integrity. Therefore, all your needs are in need of love, and other needs come after it. Other needs can replace the need for love. One can forget that basic need for love and deal with objective needs. When the need for love is not met, a gap is created and artificial objective needs fill that gap. One thinks he needs a lot of things, but all he needs is love. When the need for love is not met, you can never achieve satisfaction. Then you will feel loneliness, you will need love that will need someone who loves you. When you don't love yourself, you will need someone who loves you and you will call him. When you can't find it, you will be lonely.
📚📖What is Love and How to Live It - Akif Manaf
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