As we all know, having friends in life is a great thing.....but choosing a best friend is difficult because we choose a friend to share our feelings and secrets, but just think once if we choose a friend who is not prompt to us and whatever we share with him he goes and shares it with others....
So, relating to the topic of friendship I am going to share with you all an incident of my life...I was I having a friend..she was with me from Pre-Kg and we were together from then and slowly slowly we became best friends and till we reach 9th we had completed 10 years of friendship and by now we were knowing each other perfectly and you can imagine that 10 years of friendship is the best time limit to know about each other.We were best friends our height also was matching so we used to sit beside each other, and we could enjoy each and every class and then once we had a twist in our friendship or you can tell it a misunderstanding between us...where we both were equally wrong.
Once in class nineth a classmate of us or a friend of us was with us... actually all liked her..because she was innocent and she had no attitude. She and my best friend used to go to a maths tution with other of our classmates.I did not join them because I my house was quite far from the tution so it was difficult for me to join the tution.So they used to go for tutions daily...and as the days passed they became quite close to each other.
On the other side those days I was speaking to my friend or you can call him my brother he was in our class itself.. actually I was doing something important thing for him which was important to him but not for me..that thing was settling the disputes between him and his girl-friend, here girlfriend does not really mean that kind of girlfriend it meant that a girl who is his friend just like how I was to him..a sisterfriend.Yes, I know you are hearing this for first time sisterfriend but it was the name given to him and me.So I was settling the disputes between them being a mediator. You may be knowing becoming mediator is very tough.
So as I was busy in settling disputes between them I did not notice the growing friendship between by best friend and that girl, but my best friend noticed me being busy with my brotherfriend,but unfortunately she did not know the reason behind getting busy with him and she noticed it many days and some of my classmates knowing the reason told my best friend the wrong reason for getting busy with him.But she did not accept that reason, but some of my classmates especially that girl with whom now my best friend was close made her to believe that the reason they told was not wrong and my best friend believed them.
After somedays when dispute was settled I was with my best friend again in the same manner how I was before.But then u started noticing the changes in my best friend she was actually not still accepted that the reason of me busy with him was that true..but she never told me about that reason. And now day by day I started feeling uneasy.I thought something had happened but never tried to see what happened.One day the girl who was close to my best friend came near me and said,
"I am sorry dear, I was doing the wrong thing...but I did not mean breaking your friendship, actually to tell you the truth I was forced to tell the wrong reason".
I was wondering what she is telling and I asked her what are you telling I am not understanding
Then she replied, "When you were settling the dispute between those both, all the other classmates said to your best friend the wrong reason"
I was shocked on hearing the reason.But then I went near my best friend and was going to tell her the right reason, Actually I did not think that she would have accepted that reson, but she accepted the reason and did not speak to me.
I know even I was wrong I would have told her what was the real reason, but until I it was too late .
But from that time I did not speak much with her but I noticed the things that was going on between her and my one more classmate that's the girl who told me the truth that my other classmates have told my best friend the wrong reason. what was going in front of my eyes I took it seriously and thought that now my best friend has left me and she does not need me anymore so even I thought that I won't speak to her.
But suddenly next day something weird happen my brotherfriend came near me and ask that why you and your best friend are not speaking, considering him as my brother I told him the real reason that she had thought that I and you were making plan against her, but you know the truth and I know the truth but she is not able to accept the truth and I am not able to tell the truth.
Next day he did much research about me and her and he came near me and told that I was lying to him. he came to know the real reason behind me and her not talking he told me that we both are not speaking because of one more friend and he made me realise that my best friend and that friend are not real friends, actually it was just there were going to tuition, and further added that me and my best friend will always be best friends forever no one can change you and then he forced me to go near my best friend and clear all the misunderstandings, but still somewhere I was feeling that no it can't she could have told me if something was there. But he was forcing so much so I went near her she was not able to listen to me it was really difficult for me to make her understand what was the wrong between us both and cleared all the things and misunderstanding and we never realise that it was a mistake.
That day she called me to her home and gave a party and our misunderstandings were clear and again we were best friends forever.
And by this, only one thing I understood that is A Real Friendship Never Dies.










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