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Embracing the Gift of Pain
We often run from pain but pain brings many blessings and lessons, we could not foresee. Pain shows you how strong you are and your true capacity to survive so many situations. Pain shows you how resilient you are
Pain is necessary to shatter belief systems that keep you from growing. it's your expectation of a situation a person and outcome that causes that pain. Trust me its often there to refocus you, realign you to what you want or better. It is hard but it's not your enemy it's really a good friend trying to help you but having to make the rough choices you can't.
Today forgive your pain, thank and embrace it, and see it for what it is a diamond miner.
If you lived through it, analyze its bigger message, check what you have asked for and see how it's giving it to you or clearing the path to. Just to check if I am making sense. Think of past pain and all you have gained since it. Look objectively.
In order to reduce the impact of pain. Remember any of these quotes:
"This too shall past."
"There is a lesson & a reward here, in the midst of this pain." "Forgiveness is a favor to myself."
"This pain is a bird in the sky of my greatness. I am bigger than this."
People don't cause you to pain your interpretation of their actions causes you pain. It is a wake up to change your view, to ask deeper questions like 'why did it hurt me so badly". Change your proximity to that person cause maybe they are not leading you to your heart's desire or understand even they are here us to helps you find the best parts of yourself and a part of the bigger plan playing the exact role needed. (I think of the Oracle in the movie Matrix roll in Neo's life). Thank them.
This leads us to fill that gaping hole with love. Love you as is...now. Love future you and past you. Love you by forgiving you, being kind to you, being aware of your humanness, and others. Dropping judgment because you realize in ever situation "I am that". I am the doer and the receiver. I am just as human as them whether it be a positive or negative attribute. Dropping shame it serves no purpose, dropping entitlement it blocks blessings.
Take each of these points to go gently through your heart and see if it is in agreement. You deserve ease but it's a prescription, only you can fill from within. Take the time and work to be the best version of yourself, as delicately as possible you'll get better results and greater ease faster.
Maria Collymore
Relationship Coach
July 23, 2020
P.s Any questions you have any points not clear free to message and ask me to clarify.
Thank you for following my page. You inspire me to be a better, clearer writer and coach.
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Pain is necessary to shatter belief systems that keep you from growing. it's your expectation of a situation a person and outcome that causes that pain. Trust me its often there to refocus you, realign you to what you want or better. It is hard but it's not your enemy it's really a good friend trying to help you but having to make the rough choices you can't.
Today forgive your pain, thank and embrace it, and see it for what it is a diamond miner.
If you lived through it, analyze its bigger message, check what you have asked for and see how it's giving it to you or clearing the path to. Just to check if I am making sense. Think of past pain and all you have gained since it. Look objectively.
In order to reduce the impact of pain. Remember any of these quotes:
"This too shall past."
"There is a lesson & a reward here, in the midst of this pain." "Forgiveness is a favor to myself."
"This pain is a bird in the sky of my greatness. I am bigger than this."
People don't cause you to pain your interpretation of their actions causes you pain. It is a wake up to change your view, to ask deeper questions like 'why did it hurt me so badly". Change your proximity to that person cause maybe they are not leading you to your heart's desire or understand even they are here us to helps you find the best parts of yourself and a part of the bigger plan playing the exact role needed. (I think of the Oracle in the movie Matrix roll in Neo's life). Thank them.
This leads us to fill that gaping hole with love. Love you as is...now. Love future you and past you. Love you by forgiving you, being kind to you, being aware of your humanness, and others. Dropping judgment because you realize in ever situation "I am that". I am the doer and the receiver. I am just as human as them whether it be a positive or negative attribute. Dropping shame it serves no purpose, dropping entitlement it blocks blessings.
Take each of these points to go gently through your heart and see if it is in agreement. You deserve ease but it's a prescription, only you can fill from within. Take the time and work to be the best version of yourself, as delicately as possible you'll get better results and greater ease faster.
Maria Collymore
Relationship Coach
July 23, 2020
P.s Any questions you have any points not clear free to message and ask me to clarify.
Thank you for following my page. You inspire me to be a better, clearer writer and coach.
© All Rights Reserved
