Do not tolerate someone close to you do bad things again and again. If you always say 'Let him be. Just understand him' his mind will be like 'It's fine. I'll do it again. They will understand' at the end of the day if you suddenly interfere to his doing he will not listen to you and he will victimized himself. If you questioned him, he will reveal the truth but also deny some facts and victimized himself and still insist of doing the wrong things again and again. He will closed his mind and feeling everyone is against him.

A lot of people close to him will get hurt. Some may almost lost their minds. Feel like they're hallucinating because of the pain that person gives. They want to ignore the pain but its eating them. They want to ignore it but the other people around them fueling the...