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Expectation-virus
In this part am going to write abt expectation.Expectaion is the main cause for broken heart.Let me start with a story.Once upon a time a king roaming outside the palace.Its a winter season...So cold every where.He saw a poor man who wear torned cloth.King asked him,why do you wear a thin cloth.Don't you feel cold?Old man said,I have no other clothes to wear ,my majesty..King felt very pity..ok keep waiting here i will get you dress to you.Old man feel so happy ..so he was enjoying those minute.🤩
But unfortunately king forgot that oldman..Next morning soldiers got an old man body near the palace gate.There was a letter near to him.This thin torn cloth protect me still today.But king's promising words took my life.See, expection took the old man life.
Expectation makes us weak.Everyone born with some strength,must know how to live with that in real life..But why expectation hurt?Some time our expectation is too high or low,.overwhelming or disappointment ,optimistic or pessimistic.At the end all are dangerous.
let me say about how expectaion influence in my life.Starting from childhood i always expect from loved ones.I like the honey coated words of people its stirr me a lot, then i started trusting them that leads to love and care .At the end expectation bloosm.,which shatter my life.🙃
My family always fullfill my expectation.So i feel out of the world.Then i started expect from friends and fellow people.I expect not a big thing,only a small things ..matter to me.Most of the time people never consider that..oh!!..god i feel upset and feel like under the deep see.It hyper my emotion ..Its squeeze me...I weep a lot...I innocently shared my feelings with my pillow...i started blaming and shouting like a storm.Expectation handicapped me .It make me too weak.Always depends on other.Its a big burden..At the end, only output is hurtings....😩
Sometime i pledge not to expect from anybody...anymore..but i could't .Its like raining on the crocodile.... haha.!!🙄very funny...all are big blow to me...Many times i scold my self.. its childlish..how dare you expect from them?I warn myself..and try to explain the reality to me , "you can expect from yourself thats not a problem,but not from other people"if so, that will ruin your life..Don't see all the humans are equal. Everyone has own mind which cannot study .Day by day i realise the true reason for bitter life.Time heal me..Now every thing changed..I started understanding the point.
Later am keeping a space with every one.. not attached with them ..that give me more confortable and relaxed..😄"No Pain ..No Gain".Now i am not expect from any one.Everything is under my control.Iam slowly empowering my self.
Only two ways to get happiness, stop expect from other and dig yourself asmuch as possible.Spend more time in yourself.One day you proud about youself.Alway hope the best,at the same time prepare for the worst.All set well.What is the point of blaming others? ..its worthless..better change your thought.Past is Past..divert your attention into yourself..that cost you more.!!low expection gives you more happiness and peace.Thank you😘👍