Dear Barry,
I am going to address you as a teen 7-8 years back, as a kid 10-15 years back and as an young adult of 22 years as well. In a patriarchal family it has been very tough to prove your worth, significance and existence for your own sake if not for the family or for your parents. You have felt guilty for not being brainy like your class toppers or like your cousin whom you haven't ever seen since your birth. You hated those closed doors outdated education system. You have been bullied and had been felt guilty for your...