Exterminating the expectations aren't the end of life. Most of us don't truly live our life, we all are rush through life with this illusion that expectations always causes disappointments but if you notice your life, you'll find that sometimes the resultants of disappointment makes you stronger than the first one. It teaches you to live independently, without expecting anything from anyone. Eventually it makes you perfect in your own way and sometimes it'll causes to build up a new version of you.
Expectations are the standard through which we measure our future and the satisfaction and disappointment are its results like two sides of a coin. If we satisfied with it the then we start expecting more and more. It's our so called satisfaction, actually our expectations rapidly increases with saturation.
When we get disappointed as a result of expectations then we feel broken, hurted and sometimes it becomes an unexpected act. When we'll be stop to expecting from others then we will learn that how to expect from ourselves. And we can never stop expecting anything from our life. If you observe your life then you will find that expectations are starts from your first breath and ends with the last breath of your life. Many people says that Don't expect anything from anyone, It'll be always despare you, but concretely they also expect from themselves to never expecting anything from anyone else.
If we take it in a positive way then we'll be found that whenever we have trying to exterminate our expectations then we learn something, either to be satisfy or be self dependent.
So it is proved that "Expectations can't be terminated".
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