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HOW TO STOP NITPICKING
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The next question becomes, how to stop judging others all the time?
Living a judgment-free life can be achieved through the practice of acceptance. Accepting yourself unconditionally will do wonders for your self-esteem and relationships. It needs to be said that judging is also not a matter of discerning right and wrong. Rather, it is looking upon someone in an unloving way and deciding they are less than we are. And so, since we judge without thinking, we must think not to judge
The habit of criticizing other people for what they lack is not healthy. If you think you are already developing this kind of habit, do something to overcome it before it affects your life and the lives of other people.
Here is a few tips to follow on how to stop judging others
1. Understanding: Try to understand where this person is coming from, her whole story, and listen. That person who made a remark you didn’t like might have a story to tell.
For example, I met a beautiful young girl. She came to church dressed like someone going to clean a store, while I and other members were discussing the matter of why she will wear such a dress. I approached her and asked why she was looking that way. She started crying and said her aunt she's staying with tore all her cloth because she did want her to attend church. Understanding and listening to the whole story behind someone’s opinions or actions can help us understand them, even if we...
The next question becomes, how to stop judging others all the time?
Living a judgment-free life can be achieved through the practice of acceptance. Accepting yourself unconditionally will do wonders for your self-esteem and relationships. It needs to be said that judging is also not a matter of discerning right and wrong. Rather, it is looking upon someone in an unloving way and deciding they are less than we are. And so, since we judge without thinking, we must think not to judge
The habit of criticizing other people for what they lack is not healthy. If you think you are already developing this kind of habit, do something to overcome it before it affects your life and the lives of other people.
Here is a few tips to follow on how to stop judging others
1. Understanding: Try to understand where this person is coming from, her whole story, and listen. That person who made a remark you didn’t like might have a story to tell.
For example, I met a beautiful young girl. She came to church dressed like someone going to clean a store, while I and other members were discussing the matter of why she will wear such a dress. I approached her and asked why she was looking that way. She started crying and said her aunt she's staying with tore all her cloth because she did want her to attend church. Understanding and listening to the whole story behind someone’s opinions or actions can help us understand them, even if we...
