Somedays come as lessons when we awake from our imaginery spotless lives.A healthy man hardly lives for about 50 years properly without any serious ailments. In that fifty years atleast twenty one years he invests to acquire a proper formal education. After that he struggles for a stable job for the next 5 years. Then by their early 30's they get desperate to get the best spouse to make their live hell for the next 25-30 years.When they have everything they desire for they plan or unplannedly bring a mini yet a very powerful explosive - their mini updated versions - KIDS. The remaining life they joggle between their job ,kids & by that time their annoying spouses. The whole life humans spend on assumptions- life changing career, the most understanding spouse, unlimited money when we will never look at the pricetag of any commodity ( that never happens) and most importantly a peaceful life which is again an illusion. Human purposefully seek problems and then we try to solve our problems inorder to seek peace in life. It's like God has given us all the raw ingredients and we ourselves cook an overrated & overcooked Masala Dish for our greed and then we seek a pure dish with nutrients. Anything that's overcooked loses essential nutrients similarly anything overly done loses it's worth.
I am already 30+ & already blessed with a bunch of health issues like PCOS, pre diabetes, spondylitis and many more. Today I feel I need to reboot everything. I need to search for my betterment. I can't quit because things are not working out. I know one thing for sure , life is never going to be easy & stable. Few months back I had a stable worklife & personal life. When we restrospect things in a deeper note our perfect life seems to be messy. Don't look at your own stuffs in a super zoomed lens instead step backwards & watch your life from far you will see a clearer picture. Similarly we have a tendency to zoom in all the time.. In our spouse's life or in other's life sometimes. It's time to zoom out & watch it like a normal audience and keep moving. We don't have whole life to pay attention to the details of other's mess. Look at yourself, look at your reflection in the mirror and see is this the person you wanna admire the rest of your life? You will find your flaws as a spectator. Our problem is when someone shows a glimpse of affection we pour all our affection in them. That's where we need to watch it. Every action has an equal & opposite reaction. Love doesn't guarantee love back . It can even return anger, boredom, hatred. Pour love in other's cup but don't blindly drink what's there in your cup!

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