What happens when you loose the person you are in love with ?
What if you truly loved that person?
There is an instant sense of withdrawal from the life you were living. You feel an intense desire to be with the person you or are in love with, nothing else matters or is important for you at this time in your life. Day goes off as if doesn’t matter to you anymore. The work you do seems meaningless. as the entire focus is in the love lost. You may come across so many people during this time, but no one matters to you much, as you are just too focused on you lost love.

Are you the same person after you have lost your love, “No”, because only the body remains with you, the soul is desperately in search of the person you are in love with. The after effects are simply draining and traumatic. All this keeps happening everyday. For some, it may take a few days, a couple of months and sometimes a few years to overcome this loss. There are so many who are able to move on, but there are a few who get stuck and just can’t get out of this muddle and spent the rest of their life in the thoughts of that same person who may have already moved on in their life.

The anguish, the pain is simply unbearable, and can only be overcome if that person comes back in their life, otherwise this person gets detached from almost everything in his life and lives a solitary life, thereafter. Those who have lost their love become almost lifeless and are likely to live such a colourless life and they survive to serve the cause of people who may be a part in their life in some way or other.

I truely wish and pray for the union of the people in true love even if they have lost each other for some reason and let their love again get a chance to blossom in their lives and spread the fragrance in each others life in a very special way.

© सुneel