(Teaching)
One of the greatest headaches of many young
ladies and men in relationship is the issue of sex. While
they find themselves entangled in love, they
also
would not want to offend God by fornicating.
Meanwhile, most young men of today are
always
demanding sex before marriage as a proof of
love. If a lady denies her boyfriend (fiance)
sex,
he tends to think she either does not love him
or
she is seeing another guy. And this throws the
lady into so much confusion. She genuinely
loves
the guy but wouldn't want to give in to sex. If
she denies him, she may lose him and if she
gives
in too she disobeys God. Sorry to our ladies.
Gentleman, please know that it is absolutely a
lie
from the pit of hell that if your fiancee does
not
give you sex it shows she doesn't love you.
How
can you use sex as a LOVEOMETRE? Have you
never slept with ladies you didn't truly love? If
you haven't then let me tell you that many
people
are having sex with people they never love.
And
the men are themselves the worst culprits.
If sex is a proof of love then we have to
conclude
that prostitutes love all the men they sleep
with.
If sex is a proof of love then we have to go
about
sleeping with our best friends and even family
members to show how deeply we love them.
Even married couples, do not have sex to
prove
their love. They rather have sex because sex is
part of marriage and it is meant for both
procreation and recreation - child birth and
enjoyment. Don't you know that there are
married
couples who are not genuinely in love but they
still have sex as a matter of duty or just for
cover-ups?
Surely, sex plays a major role in love affairs.
But
Eccl 3:1 says, "For everything there is a
season..." It is never the right season to have
sex
in a relationship. This is because sex is a
blood
covenant between husband and wife not
boyfriend
and girlfriend. Gen. 4:1 says, "Adam knew his
wife". It does not say "Adam knew his
girlfriend".
Stop going that far with the lady.