The Importance of a mother
Ladies and gentlemen
All I think that women has done in her entire life is ,served her family, served the family she was married into. Served her husband,served her children. Today,serve her grandchildren. And I m not even saying that there is any regrets. She has done this with great fulfilment. She has.... She probably feels more fulfilled with her life,than probably many people, whatever they would have achieved.
that's not the question. But the question is, I know the deprivations she has deprived herself of, in the entire Process.
You know how many of your mother's must be going through this even today serving the food for all of you?
"Garam Garam roti, hot hot Dal rice, kadhi." And after everybody eats and we go to our own business, what is lefy over, is probably What she is eating, and may be sabzi is not left. And she would not,if not enough sabzi is left for you , she'll cook for you. But if not enough sabzi is left for her, she is not going to cook for herself. May be she is just going to use pickle and roll in two rotis and finish it off. There is never been anyone of us sit next to mother and find out what she is eating!
Father has back pain. Mother would give a massage to it.
Mother has back pain , who in the house volunteered to press her back for that? She has to probably spray something on her own back and lie down. Because even if you want to do it her, she wil not allow you to do so, because she thinks she is born to take care of all of you. And she feels guilty if anybody
Else take care of her.
May be mother has a desire to go to Kashmir.
May be she wants to go on a trip to Singapore. It has never happened because
Father feels it's waste of money. Chances are ! There are lot of things that is never part of her life because, dad did not believe it's worth it. The family did not believe it's worth it, or she grew up in a culture where, she felt guilty if she...
All I think that women has done in her entire life is ,served her family, served the family she was married into. Served her husband,served her children. Today,serve her grandchildren. And I m not even saying that there is any regrets. She has done this with great fulfilment. She has.... She probably feels more fulfilled with her life,than probably many people, whatever they would have achieved.
that's not the question. But the question is, I know the deprivations she has deprived herself of, in the entire Process.
You know how many of your mother's must be going through this even today serving the food for all of you?
"Garam Garam roti, hot hot Dal rice, kadhi." And after everybody eats and we go to our own business, what is lefy over, is probably What she is eating, and may be sabzi is not left. And she would not,if not enough sabzi is left for you , she'll cook for you. But if not enough sabzi is left for her, she is not going to cook for herself. May be she is just going to use pickle and roll in two rotis and finish it off. There is never been anyone of us sit next to mother and find out what she is eating!
Father has back pain. Mother would give a massage to it.
Mother has back pain , who in the house volunteered to press her back for that? She has to probably spray something on her own back and lie down. Because even if you want to do it her, she wil not allow you to do so, because she thinks she is born to take care of all of you. And she feels guilty if anybody
Else take care of her.
May be mother has a desire to go to Kashmir.
May be she wants to go on a trip to Singapore. It has never happened because
Father feels it's waste of money. Chances are ! There are lot of things that is never part of her life because, dad did not believe it's worth it. The family did not believe it's worth it, or she grew up in a culture where, she felt guilty if she...