Are you looking for a relationship or for friends with benefits?
Are you seeking the one or seeking someone?
Are you trying to fill the void of loneliness?
Or trying to start something meaningful with someone?
Are you looking for someone you know little or nothing about?
Or willing to make friends and learn about someone first?
Did you friend zone someone who is good for you who you know a lot about over someone you barely knew?
Did you judge them to be the typical nice guy who is only friends with you bc he wants sex with you or you percieve his wanting to connect with you as him only wanting sex from you?
Are you attracted to someone who has the bad boy attitude yet confused when you get treated bad?
Are the bad boy types only really attractive because they are played out to be that way in society in so many areas such as through entertainment?
and if that's the case then does it make as much sense to you as it does me since people oftentimes dont realize what they perceive as attractive is also what others perceive as attractive as well as how others would react to who they are with in a relationship and in the end is soley dependent on how one benefits from everything involving their chosen partner?
Are you looking for a girl only to use her for her body or to get to know her heart?
Is it love or sex that supplies the desires and chase?
Are you willing to open up about your flaws from the start or will you keep them hidden because youre worried whoever you're interested in may suddenly become less interested in you being made aware of whatever flaws you may have?
Are you willing to accept you have flaws to begin with or just always put the whole blame on others?
Is it all about the looks of others bc they make you feel better about yourself in the eyes of others for having someone conventionally attractive and desired by many?
Is it about the personality of someone and what lies in their heart?
Would you be willing to hit rock bottom with them and refuse to let go?
Would you build someone else up who would also build you up?
Or do you want someone already successful for a shortcut on your own work to live off of what they provide?
Do you use your looks to attract people or view your personality as being important?
Are you willing to take red flags seriously and be single again once someone isnt right?
Would you put up with abuse even if you care for them rather than show them...