How can somebody avoid being arrogant:

First and foremost, somebody must open his heart and mind into other perspectives, opinions, views, ideas, even experiences life has to offer.

Individuals that wish to avoid the mistake of arrogance ought to be open-minded, unprejudiced, neutral or free from any limiting belief.

It would be perfect if you did not even have an opinion about the world already so you could be shaped in a more distinctive, fair and unbiased way.

That is of course difficult especially for adults.

Life shapes your character though the experiences, challenges and hardships you face.

Among these moments you create an image for yourself, your capabilities.

All these are secured into our subconscious.

Though difficult or challenging it may be there is always a way.

Don't try to make people like you through achievements…

Attempting to gain people’s approval or likability solely through accomplishments or achievements may not be an effective or genuine approach.

Instead, it implies that building authentic connections and relationships should be based on more than just external accomplishments.

Rather than relaying on efforts, it is imperative focus on developing qualities such as empathy, kindness and truthful interest in people.

Cultivating meaningful relationships is about understanding and respecting others, actively listening and showing genuine care support. It involves being authentic and true to oneself, rather than seeking validation solely through external deeds.

While achievements and personal effectiveness can contribute to one’s self-esteem, using them as the tool to gain peoples liking may create a superficial connection that lacks depth and real understanding.

to be continued...
© Nasia Torress