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THE NITPICKING .
There have been several occasion people have judge me base on my leg and look.
Haa you have man leg, your leg is so big.
Some will say behind me - She can't even see her size in the market ,
At night I always cry 😭when am alone.
Sometime I tell myself why not cut this leg and just have peace, why not this why not that.
life was so horrible for me and sometimes I feel like running 🏃 away from my Home.
When you judge other people without wanting to know the true story behind their actions, is usually when there is something inside of you that is so broken that if you found out what you believed about them was a lie, you wouldn't want to accept it or make amends.
Let's stop judging others, and relieve them of the heavy burden they are carrying on their shoulders because of us.
Everyone is different and have something about them that makes them who they are. Many people judge. It’s hard for some to stop when it’s human nature but it’s not fair. That shouldn’t be an excuse anymore. The world is changing and so are people. There are too many people that are being bullied daily for being themselves. People should not be outcast for the clothes they wear, the color of their skin, their sexuality, their culture, or anything else. It’s not our job to judge and have stigma against people. We need to stop.
👂
When you meet a man, you judge him by his clothes; when you leave, you judge him by his heart.
When we are judging everyone and everything, we are learning nothing.
Some still judge people based on what is seen on the outside or the way they act. Sometimes the best personalities are those that people can’t understand or doesn’t want to.
It’s good to hang out with other people that you aren’t used to hanging out with to get different perspectives and views of the world. You don’t always have to hang out with someone that think like you or views align with yours.
Everyones views will not be the same but that’s okay. We don’t all have to be the same because that would make the world a boring place. If you don’t agree with another person, you don’t have to. Just don’t be disrespectful to them and act like your way of thinking is the best way. You’re not perfect and you’re not God, so don’t act like you are above others.
Feeling judged by others is one of the most hurtful things we can feel as a human being. Sometimes, without thought or notice, we judge people as a reflection of what we feel or think about ourselves.
However, what we don’t realize is that once we stop being judgmental, we free ourselves from the negative emotions preventing us from living a happy and fulfilled life.
So, if you find yourself constantly judging others, have you ever stopped and considered why? Is it out of habit? Perhaps jealousy? Or is it an unconscious behavior?
Regardless of the reason, focusing on the negative in someone only breeds negativity in you. Once you stop focusing on the flaws in someone else, you can start empathizing and even start appreciating other people’s qualities, opening yourself up to all the great things they have to offer.
Yes, in the past i use to judge people all the time, mostly in my head or to my friends but that’s when I was younger and didn’t love myself as much.
I think people that judge a lot don’t completely love themselves or just think they are better than everyone. I can understand if it happens in your head once in awhile because you can’t always help it. However, if everything you have to say something mean or judge someone for being themselves, that’s a problem. Also, a lot of people that judge swear they are perfect or get offended when some else does it to them. Why should you judge and when others do it to you it’s a problem? It hurts or offends you when someone does it , but you constantly do it to others. Seems like something a hypocrite would do. Look i just judged you. It makes you feel a way that I did right.
“Eww, what is she wearing?” “She should have stayed home if she was going to rock hair like that “ Omg, she sound like a man, she looks like a boy 👦
oh no she act like a child
She dates a lot of men,
Stay away from her because she is a lesbian.
Stop judging.
That is not of your business. It does not affect your life in anyway, so why should it matter to you. I don’t understand how people constantly judge and talk about others when there are so many more important things to do.
We need to be more open minded and try to understand where they are coming from rather than judging. The psychological and emotional part of it really affects people. This is is very important because the bullying rate is really high. People are killing themselves because of how others treat and judge them.
Suicide is in the top for cause of death for young people today .
Some of them may have done it for reasons but majority is from bullying.
Why can some famous people get away with doing something but when you see a regular person you judge them for it? It’s only acceptable when certain people do it but not others. That’s not fair.
I don’t expect you to stop judging right away when that’s just apart of you but try. Try hard. We need to learn to love and accept each other no matter what. When you show people that you accept them and are not judging them it makes them feel so good about themselves. It makes them feel happier that they are accepted despite being different from you. Maybe if we all tried to judge less then less people would commit suicide.
We all want to be loved and be accepted.
We won’t always agree but try not to judge someone for who they are or their views. Your style will not be what another person like.
My advice is let try to look at the world and people more positively rather than negatively. It would make the world a better place.
Everyone has untold stories of pain and sadness that make them love and live a little differently than you do. Stop judging, instead try to understand.”
©feliinspiremyworld
#painfulmemories
#stopjudgement
#weareallhumans
#inspiration
#writerswrite
#storytime
#inspirationalmessage
#inspirationalstories
#humor
#lifeadvice
Haa you have man leg, your leg is so big.
Some will say behind me - She can't even see her size in the market ,
At night I always cry 😭when am alone.
Sometime I tell myself why not cut this leg and just have peace, why not this why not that.
life was so horrible for me and sometimes I feel like running 🏃 away from my Home.
When you judge other people without wanting to know the true story behind their actions, is usually when there is something inside of you that is so broken that if you found out what you believed about them was a lie, you wouldn't want to accept it or make amends.
Let's stop judging others, and relieve them of the heavy burden they are carrying on their shoulders because of us.
Everyone is different and have something about them that makes them who they are. Many people judge. It’s hard for some to stop when it’s human nature but it’s not fair. That shouldn’t be an excuse anymore. The world is changing and so are people. There are too many people that are being bullied daily for being themselves. People should not be outcast for the clothes they wear, the color of their skin, their sexuality, their culture, or anything else. It’s not our job to judge and have stigma against people. We need to stop.
👂
When you meet a man, you judge him by his clothes; when you leave, you judge him by his heart.
When we are judging everyone and everything, we are learning nothing.
Some still judge people based on what is seen on the outside or the way they act. Sometimes the best personalities are those that people can’t understand or doesn’t want to.
It’s good to hang out with other people that you aren’t used to hanging out with to get different perspectives and views of the world. You don’t always have to hang out with someone that think like you or views align with yours.
Everyones views will not be the same but that’s okay. We don’t all have to be the same because that would make the world a boring place. If you don’t agree with another person, you don’t have to. Just don’t be disrespectful to them and act like your way of thinking is the best way. You’re not perfect and you’re not God, so don’t act like you are above others.
Feeling judged by others is one of the most hurtful things we can feel as a human being. Sometimes, without thought or notice, we judge people as a reflection of what we feel or think about ourselves.
However, what we don’t realize is that once we stop being judgmental, we free ourselves from the negative emotions preventing us from living a happy and fulfilled life.
So, if you find yourself constantly judging others, have you ever stopped and considered why? Is it out of habit? Perhaps jealousy? Or is it an unconscious behavior?
Regardless of the reason, focusing on the negative in someone only breeds negativity in you. Once you stop focusing on the flaws in someone else, you can start empathizing and even start appreciating other people’s qualities, opening yourself up to all the great things they have to offer.
Yes, in the past i use to judge people all the time, mostly in my head or to my friends but that’s when I was younger and didn’t love myself as much.
I think people that judge a lot don’t completely love themselves or just think they are better than everyone. I can understand if it happens in your head once in awhile because you can’t always help it. However, if everything you have to say something mean or judge someone for being themselves, that’s a problem. Also, a lot of people that judge swear they are perfect or get offended when some else does it to them. Why should you judge and when others do it to you it’s a problem? It hurts or offends you when someone does it , but you constantly do it to others. Seems like something a hypocrite would do. Look i just judged you. It makes you feel a way that I did right.
“Eww, what is she wearing?” “She should have stayed home if she was going to rock hair like that “ Omg, she sound like a man, she looks like a boy 👦
oh no she act like a child
She dates a lot of men,
Stay away from her because she is a lesbian.
Stop judging.
That is not of your business. It does not affect your life in anyway, so why should it matter to you. I don’t understand how people constantly judge and talk about others when there are so many more important things to do.
We need to be more open minded and try to understand where they are coming from rather than judging. The psychological and emotional part of it really affects people. This is is very important because the bullying rate is really high. People are killing themselves because of how others treat and judge them.
Suicide is in the top for cause of death for young people today .
Some of them may have done it for reasons but majority is from bullying.
Why can some famous people get away with doing something but when you see a regular person you judge them for it? It’s only acceptable when certain people do it but not others. That’s not fair.
I don’t expect you to stop judging right away when that’s just apart of you but try. Try hard. We need to learn to love and accept each other no matter what. When you show people that you accept them and are not judging them it makes them feel so good about themselves. It makes them feel happier that they are accepted despite being different from you. Maybe if we all tried to judge less then less people would commit suicide.
We all want to be loved and be accepted.
We won’t always agree but try not to judge someone for who they are or their views. Your style will not be what another person like.
My advice is let try to look at the world and people more positively rather than negatively. It would make the world a better place.
Everyone has untold stories of pain and sadness that make them love and live a little differently than you do. Stop judging, instead try to understand.”
©feliinspiremyworld
#painfulmemories
#stopjudgement
#weareallhumans
#inspiration
#writerswrite
#storytime
#inspirationalmessage
#inspirationalstories
#humor
#lifeadvice
