i was brought into a family of 4 before dad left without notification at the age of 3.
mum with no choice became mum and dad from that day on.
runing helter skelter to meet family needs.
switching her job to av a payroll, grandma was like the saviour.
mum took care while grandma do the clean up.
mum became a man when she had no knowledge of becoming one.
no choice...