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the psychologist
not sure how to transition from she is trying to get him psychological help to considering marrying him.
She had come to my church for a couple of months. I did not know much about her. She introduced herself as kate. She was well dressed. She seemed pleased She made faces at them. my kids.
One night she came up to me. "Hi, pastor." She said. "Hello, Katie. " I said. "Do you want to go? out for cofee after church tonight?" She asked. "Sure. " I said.
Was she asking me to ask? It was us and the kids so maybe not. I kinda liked her. She was attractive. She carried herself well. She was confident but not. cocky. she was a car person. She seemed to. know what to do.do as when to.do.it. she seemed like she would make a good wife. Perhaps I was getting ahead of myself.
"Do you want us to go in separate cars or take the van?" I asked. "We can go in separate vehicles." She said. "Sure. I usually greet people on their way out then we can go." I said." of course," she said.
I greeted people on their way out as usually did. I was excited about the excursion. I had not gone out much since my wife died. She was the only person I had dated. We did not date in a classical sense. We mostly went out in groups or at college or our parent's house. Our courtship was fairly limited.
I was not sure this was a date. I was pretty sure that it was not. A part of me wanted it to be a date. I wanted that. After everyone had left we went to our...