I've decided recently to create a manual for anyone I decide I may date in my future. Sounds a little odd I'm sure so let me explain a little bit before going any further.

1: I'm tired of meeting someone who magically becomes someone else in six months.
2: I'm tired of hearing you didn't tell me
that when I most certainly did.
3: I'm tired of being lied to, cheated on,
abused, lonely and just not happy.

No I'm not perfect or do I expect a perfect relationship but I do expect real and honest and someone who is just all about me but most importantly I expect what I give! Love should never be difficult but really kinda easy. You should be able to tell your partner anything without fear and talk about anything with them as vice versa they should be able to with you as well. That attraction you have when you first meet someone you know "the I can't get enough of them sexy fireworks intense cravings we all have" well that should never go away. I have heard it called the Honeymoon stage and to me that is funny. Yes life gets hectic at time's with work, kid's and the everyday hustle and bustle but life was life when you met and the reason for falling in love with one another should never go away. You should always be okay to be yourself and never have to worry about your partner putting you down or breaking your self esteem. Disagreements should be kept in privacy and never shared with the world and worked out between one another and not anyone else. Honesty is my number one factor! I'm really a laid back person and usually calm for the most part if you just tell the truth and well I find that trait a little hard to come by now day's. So no maybe life shouldn't come with a manual but I believe relationship's should so no matter how long down the road there will be written documentation so a person can never say they didn't know or you lied and my personal favorite you never told me that. So I've decided to do mine for everyone to see and if anyone decides they like the idea and wanna do their own they use the format or switch it up a bit or alot either way they choose. I was asked what if the person interested in you doesn't want to take the time to read such material and my answer to that is if they don't have the time for that then why would I think they would ever have time for anything else that is important to me so I will not be wasting any time on them. Life is to short to be lived unhappy and I can be miserable all by myself. And I would never expect anything from anyone I did not give in return being open to and actually wanting a personal manual from them as well so we eliminate wasted time because after reading mine it should be fairly clear if I'm what they are looking for. I think I should have done this a long time ago..,...

MY PERSONAL DATING MANUAL
ISSUES ADDRESSED

Part 1: BEING EMOTIONALLY
SENSITIVE

I don't want to know who you are at the moment but who you will be six months from now. One thing about myself is I am who I am and what you see is what you get. There is no in between for me I'm either up or down, high or low, happy or sad either way I'm never someone you want expect. The first thing you should know is I am an Empathic Medium and that can make me a little weird at time's. I see the world differently than most and will go out of my way to help someone if I can. Being an Empath I take in the feeling's and energy of others even when I don't want to so I'm not really into crowded places and require a little alone time to gather my senses. I have found this to be a problem in most of my past relationship's despite me always telling this at the very beginning. So I wanted to make it clear on paper first. I love people and enjoy hanging out with those I'm close to meaning I don't do big circle's not because I'm unsociable but because I'm overwhelmed easily and like to stay in control of my emotions. If I distance myself for a bit don't take it so personally it has absolutely nothing to do with you and if it does I will have no problem telling you. I'm not looking for someone all about themselves but someone who appreciates my personal needs and can respect my space as I will theirs. Someone who is full of compassion so they can fully understand what I do. Now when you throw that in with being a Medium life with me can be weird at time's. Being a Medium means I can communicate with those who have passed from this life and that has freaked a few out in the past but it is just who I am and have been my entire life making it a part of me. I use it to help those I can and I don't advertise or use it for attention. I once broke up with a guy who insisted I would charge for my service and that will never happen for my gift is not for profit but to help those who need it and when combined the two Empath and Medium you have a very sensitive overly emotional woman who communicates with dead people not to mention standing up for what I believe in with a very outspoken mouth.

Part 2 coming soon
© LaDonna Michelle💛