I was watching a video for Krishna Morty (i knew it recently,but i think you all know it since he is indian) in which he talks about the conflict between the self and others, ‏especially the issue of pain, ‏he start by asking why does a person suffer from the side of another person? ‏and he said that the reason for someone suffering from the side of another person is the contradiction between the image that you built about yourself and the image which is seen by the person who hurt you, ‏for example we take a girl who thinks she is beautiful, ‏but another person that she appreciates his opinion came to her and told her that she is not beautiful and her feelings got hurt, ‏so who is wrong here? ‏If we say that the other person fault's, ‏then this is not true perhaps, ‏because just as the girl has a beautiful picture of herself, ‏this person also has a picture of the beautiful girl, ‏so does the girl have to change herself and create a different image that matches what satisfies that person? ‏also...