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Love
Disclaimer: The word love I will be using here holds the meaning of what people in todays world consider love. Then I will say what true love means.
People in every inch of earth think that love(relationship) is something eternally sacred or pure or some kind of magic. I dont care abt the likes or hatred. But let me just break the honest truth to u.
First of all the feel you get when you are with the person you love is nothing but chemicals. Yes you heard it right. You meet a person, you like that person , you propose they say yes.
So as days pass by they notice that they dont have the same interest as they had previously when they started loving. So two scenarios. One they breakup or one of them cheats.
So why most of the love fails?? Why some rare percentage of couples end up happy till they die. So let me answer u why.
Love most of the people have in their mind:
Guys:
*Many guys think that their girl is nothing but someone for him to have romance with. Its the fking truth.
* So as days pass by they lose interest,because they dont get the same chemicals or same sexual excitment as they had at the start.
*Instead of asking her whats her size you shld discuss abt the periods with her and solve her mental issues.
Girls:
* Many girls think about their safety in love. I am talking abt the financial security. Some wants guys who is famous. Some wants them to be rich.
*Instead of finding someone who is successful and love them you can make the guy u love successful.
* Some girls have the perception,that one day some guy will come and treat her as a queen. Well ask ur mother.
Guys what I am saying is that true love is imperfect and you cant expect someone to be perfect so they you can acquire him or her. Its the opposite true love happens when messed up individual fcuked up persons choose to live together just because among all the individual imperfections and they still want each other. Beacuse at the possibility of pain is where love stems from.
Its also about loving without attachment. What I mean is that some guys start hating the girl if she leaves.. Well if u have truly loved her why are u angry at her now after leaving. She has the same character now? Right.
When you love a flower with attachment you pluck it and when you love a flower without attachment you water it.
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People in every inch of earth think that love(relationship) is something eternally sacred or pure or some kind of magic. I dont care abt the likes or hatred. But let me just break the honest truth to u.
First of all the feel you get when you are with the person you love is nothing but chemicals. Yes you heard it right. You meet a person, you like that person , you propose they say yes.
So as days pass by they notice that they dont have the same interest as they had previously when they started loving. So two scenarios. One they breakup or one of them cheats.
So why most of the love fails?? Why some rare percentage of couples end up happy till they die. So let me answer u why.
Love most of the people have in their mind:
Guys:
*Many guys think that their girl is nothing but someone for him to have romance with. Its the fking truth.
* So as days pass by they lose interest,because they dont get the same chemicals or same sexual excitment as they had at the start.
*Instead of asking her whats her size you shld discuss abt the periods with her and solve her mental issues.
Girls:
* Many girls think about their safety in love. I am talking abt the financial security. Some wants guys who is famous. Some wants them to be rich.
*Instead of finding someone who is successful and love them you can make the guy u love successful.
* Some girls have the perception,that one day some guy will come and treat her as a queen. Well ask ur mother.
Guys what I am saying is that true love is imperfect and you cant expect someone to be perfect so they you can acquire him or her. Its the opposite true love happens when messed up individual fcuked up persons choose to live together just because among all the individual imperfections and they still want each other. Beacuse at the possibility of pain is where love stems from.
Its also about loving without attachment. What I mean is that some guys start hating the girl if she leaves.. Well if u have truly loved her why are u angry at her now after leaving. She has the same character now? Right.
When you love a flower with attachment you pluck it and when you love a flower without attachment you water it.
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