Is a throw away term for me. It can be applied to men or women depending on context. It's not gender exclusive. I personally use it as a vague description of random people I don't know well enough to recall their actual name. I got a lot to say about people that wronged me but using bitch and leaving it at that has been ultimately therapuetic because I know who they are and you know why I feel the way I do, you can express yourself without dragging people down you should've left. I can't stand people condemning other people for expressing themselves it's the same people that think merely posting an opinion on facebook makes them an activist, live that shit.