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" Pyaar ke liye kbhi kisi se bheek mat maangna"
Agar tum ek aise relationship mei ho, jaha tumhe yeh kehna padta hai ki wo tumhare liye thoda waqt nikale ,acche se baat kare tumse , saath rahe , beech raaste chodkar na jaye tumhe matlab rishtey ko bnaye rakhne ke liye tumne har mumkin kosis karke dekh li hai woh har chiz jo tum kar sakte the.
Magar saamne wale ko isee koi farak nhi pad rha hai toh ruk jao ab , dekho aisa hai , maana ki har rishtey mei nok jhok hoti hai lekin baat jab khud ki self respect ki ho toh sochna padta hai, jab itna kuch karne ke baawjood bhi takleef tumhe hi pauch rahi ho, toh tum galat insaan par apne aansu aur waqt lga rahe ho jo iss layak nhi hai, kyuki baat barabar ki honi chahiye.
Akele Tum hi kyu relationship ko bachane mei lage ho ,tumhe khone ka darr unhe bhi hona chahiye, jab unhe kadar hi nhi hai rishto ki toh tumhe kya padi hai nibhane ki, tum bhi peeche hatt jao. kya tumhare liye apne emotions ki koi value nhi hai ? koi tumhare liye ab itna khaas ho gya ki uske liye apne dil ko thes pauchaoge.
kisi ko itna bada mat bnao ki tum uske liye apne wajood ko hi bhula baitho, Rishta dono ne hi milkar bnaya hai toh zimmedari bhi dono ki huii , Yaha koi kisi pe ehsaan nhi kar rha, kitna bhi achha lgta ho usee kitna bhi pyar ho, uske liye apni dignity mat girao.
Jis insaan mei rishtey ko nibhane ki himmat hi nhi hai uske sath rehna hi kyu? dur karo aise rishtey jaha pyaar ki bheek maangni pade. yun baar baar kehkar jataya huaa pyaar sirf formality hoti hai, unhe agar sach mei tumse pyar hai toh woh khud tumhare bina kahe hi relationship mei invest krenge, iss tarah tumhe jhukne nhi denge.
khud hi socho , jaha tumhe kisi ka attention ya pyaar ke liye apni hi nazro mei girna pade woh pyaar kaisa ? yeh pyar nhi hai tumne unhe khud se uper or apne jazbaato ko bhi peeche rakh diya hai, itna hi nhi tum hi bina galtiyon ki maafi maangte ho, unhe rokne ki, manane ki kosish mei bewajh ki beijaati sehte ho ,mohabbat koi bheek nhi hoti woh agr mil bhi jaye na toh bheek mei hamdardi hi milegi pyar nhi. kyuki tumhare liye wo relationship hai or saamne wale ke liye time paas ban chuka hai, aise rishtey mei na tumhari ijjat rhegi na hi pyaar , bas woh ek compromise se bhra toxic relationship hoga, jaha tum bilkul bhi khus nhi rhoge iss liye baar baar apne pyaar ka yakeen dilana band karo. kyuki jitna Tum unke saamne jhukoge,rohoge, gidgidaoge woh utna hi tumhe gira huaa samjhenge.
Isliye behtar hai agr unhe nhi koi fark padta toh tumhe bhi kise ke hone na hone se fark nhi padna chahiye, pyaar apni jagah thik hai lekin pyaar ki bheek maangni pade yeh thik nhi hai, hamesha yad rakhna life mei kuch Mile ya na mile
kbhi bhi apne dil se samjhauta mat krna 100 rs ke note ko bhi soch smajhkar kar kharch kiya jata hai phir yeh toh tumhari zindagi or feelings ka sawaal hai woh itni sasti thodi ho sakti hai jisse yuhi kisi par bhi kharch kar diya jaye.
kya hai pyaar, waqt or bhrosha bade hi mehnge tohfe hai isliye saste logo se inki ummeed mat Krna kisi ko pyaar krne ka matlab yeh nhi hota ki tum khud ko hi bhul jao tum bhi toh khud ke liye utne hi zaroori ho jitna ki woh tumhare liye.
Wohi thodi na sab kuch hai, tum jeete apne dil ke saath ho par usse chodkar tumhe sabki feelings ki parwaah hai ki kahi unko tumhari wajah se bura na lag jaye woh kya sochenge? par tumhara kya? tumhari bhi toh feelings hai , emotions hai, tumhe bhi hurt hota hai yun koi bhi uske saath khel kaise sakta hai tumhari zara bhi self respect nhi hai kya?
jitni importance tum unhe dete ho unki fikar krte ho woh sb pehle khud ko do Orr iss dil par na zara taala lgakar rakho khudko kisi ko bhi itni jldi mat saup diya kro pehle apne dil ki keemat ko smjho yuhi koi bhi haqdaar nhi hota ki usee woh jagah di jaye sirf whi tumhare dil ki keemat smjhega jo iss layak ho ki woh khud ke dil ki keemat Krna jaanta ho, tbhi woh tumhare emotions feelings ki value krega yun baar baar jhukna apni disrespect krwana band kro jb saamne wale ko hi zaroorat nhi hai tumhe bhi nhi chaiye aisa saath iss liye pyaar ki bheek maangna, baar baar jhukna band kr do.
© कृष्ण_प्रिया
#selfrespect
#selflove
#selfmotivation
Magar saamne wale ko isee koi farak nhi pad rha hai toh ruk jao ab , dekho aisa hai , maana ki har rishtey mei nok jhok hoti hai lekin baat jab khud ki self respect ki ho toh sochna padta hai, jab itna kuch karne ke baawjood bhi takleef tumhe hi pauch rahi ho, toh tum galat insaan par apne aansu aur waqt lga rahe ho jo iss layak nhi hai, kyuki baat barabar ki honi chahiye.
Akele Tum hi kyu relationship ko bachane mei lage ho ,tumhe khone ka darr unhe bhi hona chahiye, jab unhe kadar hi nhi hai rishto ki toh tumhe kya padi hai nibhane ki, tum bhi peeche hatt jao. kya tumhare liye apne emotions ki koi value nhi hai ? koi tumhare liye ab itna khaas ho gya ki uske liye apne dil ko thes pauchaoge.
kisi ko itna bada mat bnao ki tum uske liye apne wajood ko hi bhula baitho, Rishta dono ne hi milkar bnaya hai toh zimmedari bhi dono ki huii , Yaha koi kisi pe ehsaan nhi kar rha, kitna bhi achha lgta ho usee kitna bhi pyar ho, uske liye apni dignity mat girao.
Jis insaan mei rishtey ko nibhane ki himmat hi nhi hai uske sath rehna hi kyu? dur karo aise rishtey jaha pyaar ki bheek maangni pade. yun baar baar kehkar jataya huaa pyaar sirf formality hoti hai, unhe agar sach mei tumse pyar hai toh woh khud tumhare bina kahe hi relationship mei invest krenge, iss tarah tumhe jhukne nhi denge.
khud hi socho , jaha tumhe kisi ka attention ya pyaar ke liye apni hi nazro mei girna pade woh pyaar kaisa ? yeh pyar nhi hai tumne unhe khud se uper or apne jazbaato ko bhi peeche rakh diya hai, itna hi nhi tum hi bina galtiyon ki maafi maangte ho, unhe rokne ki, manane ki kosish mei bewajh ki beijaati sehte ho ,mohabbat koi bheek nhi hoti woh agr mil bhi jaye na toh bheek mei hamdardi hi milegi pyar nhi. kyuki tumhare liye wo relationship hai or saamne wale ke liye time paas ban chuka hai, aise rishtey mei na tumhari ijjat rhegi na hi pyaar , bas woh ek compromise se bhra toxic relationship hoga, jaha tum bilkul bhi khus nhi rhoge iss liye baar baar apne pyaar ka yakeen dilana band karo. kyuki jitna Tum unke saamne jhukoge,rohoge, gidgidaoge woh utna hi tumhe gira huaa samjhenge.
Isliye behtar hai agr unhe nhi koi fark padta toh tumhe bhi kise ke hone na hone se fark nhi padna chahiye, pyaar apni jagah thik hai lekin pyaar ki bheek maangni pade yeh thik nhi hai, hamesha yad rakhna life mei kuch Mile ya na mile
kbhi bhi apne dil se samjhauta mat krna 100 rs ke note ko bhi soch smajhkar kar kharch kiya jata hai phir yeh toh tumhari zindagi or feelings ka sawaal hai woh itni sasti thodi ho sakti hai jisse yuhi kisi par bhi kharch kar diya jaye.
kya hai pyaar, waqt or bhrosha bade hi mehnge tohfe hai isliye saste logo se inki ummeed mat Krna kisi ko pyaar krne ka matlab yeh nhi hota ki tum khud ko hi bhul jao tum bhi toh khud ke liye utne hi zaroori ho jitna ki woh tumhare liye.
Wohi thodi na sab kuch hai, tum jeete apne dil ke saath ho par usse chodkar tumhe sabki feelings ki parwaah hai ki kahi unko tumhari wajah se bura na lag jaye woh kya sochenge? par tumhara kya? tumhari bhi toh feelings hai , emotions hai, tumhe bhi hurt hota hai yun koi bhi uske saath khel kaise sakta hai tumhari zara bhi self respect nhi hai kya?
jitni importance tum unhe dete ho unki fikar krte ho woh sb pehle khud ko do Orr iss dil par na zara taala lgakar rakho khudko kisi ko bhi itni jldi mat saup diya kro pehle apne dil ki keemat ko smjho yuhi koi bhi haqdaar nhi hota ki usee woh jagah di jaye sirf whi tumhare dil ki keemat smjhega jo iss layak ho ki woh khud ke dil ki keemat Krna jaanta ho, tbhi woh tumhare emotions feelings ki value krega yun baar baar jhukna apni disrespect krwana band kro jb saamne wale ko hi zaroorat nhi hai tumhe bhi nhi chaiye aisa saath iss liye pyaar ki bheek maangna, baar baar jhukna band kr do.
© कृष्ण_प्रिया
#selfrespect
#selflove
#selfmotivation
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