The only way to succeed in this planet Earth is to never hesitate to question those who have once been in the process earlier before you.

Towards my early twenties then, I was the type that always want to make big things happen and always want to come out unique within folk.

As I kept struggling around with the hope of "E go better E go better", I merely missed one of the important keys to greatness which was the ability to watch and ask questions...

Though it wasn't quite long I later realized that, as I quickly learned the act of watching before uttering.

The ability to watch and digest words before uttering any single statement is a great tool in leading and following people.

I was in a setting of elders yesterday discussing about some issues and solutions, I didn't utter much words not because of I didn't know what to say or how to say it but I kept watching and learning as ideas keep flowing.

Through my observations, I noticed what majority of people are facing nowadays especially youth is Inability to watch before uttering..

You and I react to things the way it bounces on us, we have forgotten the word Self-control, we have neglected the habit of giving space..

Do you know you must be able to be aware and control yourself in any situation?

Di you know there is what we called Self-control?

To what extent have you worked on yours?

Seriously, you and I need to adopt the habit of watching before uttering!

Did you know the most dangerous thing on earth is word?

It is very easy to pour out but so much difficult to clear off...

Can you kindly check through the harm you have done to yourself through your words?

This article is getting long, I will like to cease my pen for now but ruminate on this as the road to success is neither smooth nor rough, it depends on how expert you can drive your vehicle.

Still your success advocate,
Soliu Ayubb A.